When I lived in England I would say I loved the Autumn, but really it was only those very few days of crisp air, sunshine, walks and wonderful colours. Most of the time it was dull and grey. I love Christmas so the run up saved my soul. It's after Christmas that I hate until the Spring arrives. I love the summer.
The answer? Move to South West France. We live in the poorest departement (Ariege) it is so far unspoilt and uncrowded, and BIG bonus is the long Autumns when it is usually warm and balmy until late November. I can swim in our unheated pool until mid October (OK a bit chilly but refreshing) and we still have BBQs and eat out during the day time. The wood burning stove usually goes on in the evenings from late September but I can cope with that. Other big pluses - even in December it doesn't get dark until 6pm, skies are usually blue and clear, with sunshine throughout most of the Autumn and Winter. The leaves start turning wonderful colours at the end of November, then the nights really start getting cold, and then the days too, but it's a dry cold. I love it all.
After a long very hot summer, and now an exceptionally hot September the cooler (26 degrees) is welcome.