Expectations are different with each generation, my mum didn't have a washing machine or vacuum cleaner before I was in my teens, I went without 'extras' to save for our first house when we got married, our first furniture, white goods etc was all second hand and going out for a meal was a luxury reserved for very special occasions. Today's youngsters expect to go out and enjoy themselves more often, they want all the gadgets and technology for their homes and the emphasis seems to be in ensuring that they are having a 'good' life whilst they are young and that must be paid for. Nothing wrong in that obviously, things are just different now, but nothing comes for free, you can only have what you can afford and if you focus on the here and now rather than the future, then when the future has crept up (usually unnoticed!) then you have to take the consequences. I'm very much for living your life as you want to, if that means enjoying your earlier life and a less comfortable retirement then so be it, 'you pays your money and takes your choice'.