Have you ever..contacted an old school friend?

I have caught up with 12 or 13 school friends from 60 years back and for the last 10 or so years we have been meeting up every month for lunch. last year I decided to try and organise a school reunion We had 70 people turn up including two teachers one of whom has since died. it was only a small school of about 200 pupils so I reckon we ve done ok We have been in touch with a few others through FB since, who don't live anywhere nearby We are hoping to have another reunion in a couple of years.
We have all had different experiences some of us have had careers some none some been living overseas some stayed put some had professions some been on the dole Half of us have had more than one husband We all have a good laugh and lots of reminders of the 'old days' This year I met one of my bridesmaids who I lost touch with soon after my marriage so 52 years it was just like we d never been apart really lovely

I went to a school reunion when we were all in our 50th year, apart from the past memories, few of us had anything in common. I have also met up with a couple of friends, one a really close friend, in the past. But our lives have taken diverse paths, so as someone said ' best left in the past'.

I found an old school friend on Friends Reunited. We hadn`t seen each other since she moved to Hong Kong, in 1965, then New Zealand, before ending up in Australia, but after a few years we lost touch. We started off with polite emails, then an exchange of photos, and since then she`s phoned me twice, and we had lovely natters. But although she knows my address, she`s never offered me hers, but has told me the general area where she lives.

About 10 of us had a reunion 14 years ago, 35 years after we had left school. It was a very strange experience; like meeting strangers who reminded you vaguely of someone.It was a fun day but has never been repeated. I think we had all changed so much from the awkward 17 year olds we had been. We had all gone our separate and diverse ways and once we had exchanged family/work details and laughed about our school days, there wasn't much in common to talk about.... I have always kept in touch with a couple of them but have no desire to meet any of them again.

An old friend organised a school reunion a while back. I didn't want to go, being a bit of a miserable old git shy, but I'm so glad I went.

The years just fell away.

We see each other regularly now. Many haven't moved away from our birthplace, so relatively easy.

Via the sister of an old school friend I wrote her what I thought was a friendly newsy letter 50 years since last seeing her. She never replied and a I know she received my letter, I was so hurt. So for me it might have been better to be left with my memories.

Yes all the time, long enduring friendships 50 or so years old. We were all at senior school together but two were also from junior/infant school. Two live about 70 miles away and we meet up at least once annually, but text and speak on the phone. One of the further away ones comes to stay for long week-ends with her husband in the summer. Another of the three lives about 15 or so miles away and we meet maybe monthly for a lunch date.

I found an old school friend by way of a Facebook friend. My friend was in conversation with her friend and a name was mentioned which was my old school friend's maiden name. I asked if they were related and it turned out that she was my friend's sister-in-law. I asked her to contact my friend and ask if she wanted to be reacquainted. We haven't met up yet but have had several long conversations via messenger. We plan to meet up for coffee and a really good catch up very soon.

I met up with an old schoolfriend 15 years ago. We have since been on holiday together several times, meet regularly for coffee and people say we are like teenagers when we are together. Now we are both widows and we value our friendship more now than we did when we were younger.

I did contact an old friend from my childhood - she lived next door to me and we were in the same class at junior school. About 14 years ago I realised I would be in the area and contacted her in advance and arranged to meet up. It was nice to catch up and we spent a lovely couple of days together, but the email exchange afterwards fairly soon tapered off to nothing - I think we both realised our lives had moved too far apart and there was no common ground.
It made me realise then that if the childhood friendship was meant to be deep and lasting we would never have lost touch in the first place. So these days no, I don't try to contact old friends. As Gagagran says, perhaps friendships from the past should stay in the past. The memories are lovely, why risk spoiling them?

I have been in contact with several school friends since Friends Reunited and now Facebook. Some of us have met up and although we have led different lives still have much in commmon. Some of our classmates have gone on to become professors and such, these are the ones that we have Googled but they do not join in our chit chat.

I found and contacted an old High School friend on-line and we have had a few subsequent phone conversations.We were very close from 11 to 13 years old and spent a lot of time together both in and out of school. I last saw her in 1960 when she came to stay at my parents house for a weekend. Then we lost touch.

She is quite keen to meet up but my curiosity has been satisfied about where she had ended up and what her life had been like and I really want to leave it there. Not sure how I can say that to her - it sounds uncaring and it was me that found her so I would feel guilty. Maybe we should just leave friendships from the past right there!

What swanny said

Over the last couple of years I have been in touch with a number of old childhood friends via a Facebook group for Glastonbury. Most I haven't seen or heard of since our junior school days, we keep in touch via the group but I wouldn't expect to meet any of them - as you say most have gone on to lead totally different lives.
I do still meet two of my longest term friends, again from junior school times, but we always spent a lot of time together at school and after. We all live in different places now but try to meet a couple times a year - the last time a couple weeks ago midway during our 60th birthdays!

I was very good friends with a girl at school who, I discovered by chance, lived around the corner from our last house. We were delighted to see each other and arranged to have dinner together. It was nice to catch up, but we no longer had a lot in common. She had divorced her husband and travelled a lot - trekking in Nepal, Inca Trail, that sort of thing. I was hard pressed to find the time to walk up Kinder Scout at that time! We had a nice evening and never saw each other again. I tried a couple of years ago to get in touch with an old Army friend, but have not been able to. I think she may live in New Zealand now. I would dearly love to see her again.

I did contact an old school friend once and we met up for a coffee. We had nothing in common any more so it was a bit of a failure.

I contacted an old school friend on Friends Reunited before it was ended , we exchanged catch up messages but that was it we had no other contact. No harm in emailing her she either answers or not.

Maybe an email mentioning your past connection and congratulating her on her achievements. Don't mention what you've been doing at this point, wait to see if she's interested and responds.

I saw a newspaper article about an art exhibition in my town and realised I had gone to school with the artist. I read further and discovered she had lived in New York for the last 40+ years and was also a make up artist for big dress designers' fashion shows. I wanted to see the exhibition but decided against approaching the artist, our lives were totally different.