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Ilrina Sat 20-Aug-16 00:26:35

Horror of Horrors It is that time of year again, and the rain makes it all the more likely. Picture the scene: Hubby just gone off to bed. I popped to wash up cups etc from supper, coming back to the sitting room I spied it in the dim light from the lamp..HUGE, brown and eight legged sitting very close to where my bare feet had been not five mins earlier!!. I flew into the kitchen and grabbed a big bowl, almost threw it over the top of it, then ran to get Hubby who had gotten as far as removing his trousers. So..He is on his knees sliding a magazine under the bowl, We then realised he couldn't lift it as the magazine was a bit floppy, so he had to drag it slowly on his knees whilst holding the bowl firmly on top, right accross the sitting room, out into the kitchen and to the back door, then came the tricky bit( All this was not helped by me jigging around and shouting " For God's sakes DO NOT let it escape. He reached to door, and somehow managed to eject magazine, eight legged creature( Cannot type the word) ugh, and the bowl out through the doorand onto the path, it took off at about 100 miles an hour phew. Hubby heads back to the bedroom!! Until I informed him we needed to move all the furniture out to check it had not left a friend behind. I didn't see anything but I am VERY nervous. I have all sorts of things in here that THEY are supposed not to like, and still it invaded. Why is it we never see them actually coming in??
I know it isn't logical to feel this way, I know they don't hurt, but I am terrified, and they make me actually feel ill. I hope I get a good sleep after this but I doubt it shock

bikergran Mon 22-Aug-16 11:40:09

Hi Falcon yes I'm pretty sure it was a spider bite and it wasn't a BIG spider (if that was the culprit) it was only small....but my dad says that ants and ladybirds can bite! not sure about that though hmm

f77ms Mon 22-Aug-16 08:39:52

I can deal with anything , spiders ,beetles, cockroaches, daddylonglegs ,mice ,rats etc but if I see a wasp I get this electric shock feeling and start to run waving my arms about which is the worst thing to do . Very strange that we have these reactions to certain creatures , it must be a survival mechanism . Interesting also to find out that spiders bite ! I always just ignore any that are in the house . Last year I found a spider nest on the kitchen wall and enjoyed seeing the mummy spider watching over her babies , one day it had just gone !!!!

Falconbird Sun 21-Aug-16 13:19:23

Interesting point Biker. Do spiders bite? I lived in a big old house and the attic next door was cleared out resulting in all the big black' orrible spiders coming into our house.

I frequently had v shaped marks on my legs and arms. like fang bites and so did my little boy. They didn't hurt in any way but they did look like bites. shock confused

bikergran Sun 21-Aug-16 11:05:13

"golf" ball not "gold" ball...(if only) smile

bikergran Sun 21-Aug-16 11:04:22

I was bitten by a small spider a few years ago (presume it was that is I found it squashed near me) it bit my knuckle which swelled up to about the size of half a gold ball, I had to go home from the caravan and to the docs..as the poison was tracking up my arm and was almost at my elbow. the doc drew a line where it was and said if it goes any further to go to A n E I had to take anti biotics.

I don't mind spiders I just don't wan them running over me and I certainly don't want to be eating one during the night when Im led there with mouth wide open shock

About 4 days ago I found what looked like a daddy long legs, but on closer inspection I saw it was carrying something, I rung DD who said it was a cellar spider and it was carrying this little grey sack which contained eggs!! I put it outside (by the way I dont have a cellar) hmm yuk"'

Gagagran Sun 21-Aug-16 10:41:11

Don't mind spiders even though I had a nasty bite from one once when I tried to pick up a bit of fluff from a carpet (not wearing my specs) only to find it was a spider.

The things that give me palpitations are mice and more especially rats. I have a terrible fear of them and really hate them.

Neversaydie Sun 21-Aug-16 10:02:53

I can't bear to kill spiders but DD 2 requires evidence of despatch ...
Rodents (even dead) generate hysteria in me Not v dignified at my age

Crafting Sun 21-Aug-16 09:57:29

I hate snakes. Can't bear to even look at them. Not keen on spiders either so usually do the glass and cardboard pickup and drop them outside. Moths don't bother me.

Marmight Sun 21-Aug-16 09:55:49

I don't mind spiders at all and will happily pick them up and relocate outdoors but when in Australia each year I do have to remember not to do that... If I came face to whisker with a mouse or rat I would be off up the road as fast as my legs would carry me; I am just not very good with anything on 4 legs with a long tail which is smaller than a large dog wink

Nannanoo Sun 21-Aug-16 08:46:09

Phobias are funny things, aren't they? I'm ok with spiders, but even the word 'snake' makes me go all wibbly-wobbly!

Ilrina Sun 21-Aug-16 00:20:43

I have heard all sorts of things to put them off, I have seen one sitting on top of a conker though:-( I hear Lavender is another one. We have a Lavender hedge and I pick heaps of it and have it in dishes all over the house, even if it doesn't work it smells lovely. Someone on here suggested Lemons cut in half and I am going to get a few when I go to Supermarket tomorrow. I will also try that thing Shysal suggested. Hey I would dance naked in the moonlight if I thought that would work, but that will probably just drive the neighbours away grin

Swanny Sat 20-Aug-16 22:20:10

DiL told me two years ago that conkers placed in the corners of rooms keep spiders away. Didn't believe it but gave it a try to please her and guess what? I've only seen one spider indoors since then hmm

SueDonim Sat 20-Aug-16 21:50:42

Sp*d*rs are my no 1 hate! I loath them and am absolutely petrified of them. No amount of rationalising about how small they are compared to me or how harmless they are makes any difference. Nothing needs eight legs, and they're simply the Devils horsemen, in my terrified opinion! Any who intrude into my space will pay with their life. They must be made dead, dead, dead!

Cockroaches are almost as bad. When we had a holiday in Bali my poor 7yo pulled some clothes out of the drawer in the wardrobe and a HUGE one flew out across the room! Cue much screaming and hysterics and standing on beds and tbh, dh wasn't much better!

hulahoop Sat 20-Aug-16 21:39:43

White wave I'm glad you could carry on and enjoy holiday don't know if I could . I am like you llrina wish I could learn to accept them ?I tell myself they are probably more frightened of me but it doesn't work hope we don't get too many !!!

Bellasnana Sat 20-Aug-16 21:12:59

No problem with spiders personally "If you wish to live and thrive, let the spider run alive". Now cockroaches are another matter shock grin

Ilrina Sat 20-Aug-16 20:24:22

Thanks for all your replies. I will have a look at that link, Shysal, thank you. CBT?? I don't think that would do me any good to be honest. I KNOW they are ok, and not going to hurt me nless I am allergic. I KNOW they get the flies, everything in my brain says " It's not a problem" but my adrenelin say RUNNNNN!!

It is odd because no other creature scares me. I love moths and butterflies, and even daddy long legs I gently pick up with bare hands and take them outside smile
I once even saw a moth that had landed on a damp bowl. I rescued it, put it on a tissue and gently breathed on it until it was dried out and well enough to fly off again.

Ana Sat 20-Aug-16 19:42:48

And me...

grannylyn65 Sat 20-Aug-16 19:31:57

I do that too Lupatria !!!!

SewAddict Sat 20-Aug-16 19:22:27

" what can they do to you? Nothing at all. "
Whitewave my daughter has been badly bitten by a spider and needed GP treatment. He said it was spider bites!

sluttygran Sat 20-Aug-16 17:15:53

I don't mind spiders at all, in fact if they gobble up house flies they're very welcome in my house!
I absolutely LOATHE flies, especially at night when you're just settling down to sleep, and you hear zzzzz-zzZZZZZZ-zzzzz.
Just when you think the dam' thing has got fed up and flown away, it's zzzzZZZZZZ all over again.
Yup, I'll keep a large pet spider in my bedroom to deal with the flippin buzzers!

wot Sat 20-Aug-16 17:05:15

I can't abide moths!!! I can't kill them though. The ones with big bodies that bang against the lights are the worst.

Linsco56 Sat 20-Aug-16 16:44:58

I can honestly say spiders don't bother me much. Glass on top, Sunday supplement underneath and a quick trip to the back door. Jenny long legs are caught in cupped hands and taken outside.

However DD is terrified of spiders and I remember her being at home alone during the day and studying in her bedroom when she spotted an enormous spider on her (newly decorated) bedroom wall. She put her hand inside one of her Caterpillar boots and squashed it shock leaving on the wall a totally flattened spider and the full imprint of a dirty boot.

judypark Sat 20-Aug-16 13:04:15

Be consoled that if you have spiders you have a dry house, spiders don't like damp living quarters. I live with several and we all get along fine. The only time I remove them is when they are in imminent danger of being a tasty snack for my dog, I just scoop them up and relocate them to another room. No point putting them outside as they will just find their way back in again. Don't mind mice or domesticated rats but not the sewer variety. We have the occasional visit from one of these in our garage but DDs Jack Russell soon dispatches these.

Lupatria Sat 20-Aug-16 11:34:41

i'm afraid i'm the arachnicide person in our family - one of my grandaughters is petrified of the little horrors, the other one doesn't like them but mum is ok with them and does the glass and card trick. me? well i've found a book thrown on the spider normally does the trick when it's a large one or a tissue applied to the wall/floor when it's a smaller one and then it's flushed down the loo ................ and the ones in the bath/sink/basin are flushed down.
sorry to those live and let live people - i just don't like spiders.

sunseeker Sat 20-Aug-16 11:25:21

I too bought an electronic spider repeller (different to the one shysal bought). When I was still finding spiders I contacted the company who told me it drives them out of the walls so I may find more in the house shock. I have kept them plugged in and now no longer see any spiders but every morning it seems they have had a party in my house overnight because I find webs everywhere!confused