I should be in bed as I am shattered after a lovely visit from D, SIL and the 3 DGC this afternoon/evening. The head been visiting the new day in London on their way home from Somerset (I know, Somerset > E London> N Bucks, then > Birmnghamb is a bit of a detour) but DGS1 had been very sad not to see his baby cousin last week because of course it was still term time.
Anyway, they came, they trashed Granny's lounge, we all had tea together then they had their baths and got into their pj's to drive home.Actually they didn't really trash the joint (much!) the 2 boys disappeared off to the kitchen to do some colouring (favourite occupation) leaving Pippa to play with the toy toolkit 
You have been in the wars my fellow Kitcheners!
to you all. The ocular migraine sounds terrifying , DH had something similar once, but he said it was lie a shutter coming down which fortunately went up again within a few minutes.
Soop the shambles of your treatment by the NHS is appalling, even if they don't superb job mefically, there is none use for administrative incompetence especially when it causes such distress.
Bellanonna I may need to "assert" myself soon as I am wondering if my DH is incubating something. His temperature has been over 37 on 3 days now but also drops to below normal at times and he is breathless and so exhausted. No rigors though, if that starts it's an ambulance again. He got up just before the family arrived, got dressed then went back to bed at 8.30 after they had gone. Good thing he has another blood test tomorrow, but it is only to measure his Hb, I don't know if they will do a full set of bloods to see if there is an infection. He has a cardiac procedure booked at the John Radcliffe in Oxford next week but obviously if he is not well, they can't go ahead.
Wishing you all a peaceful night and maybe event glimpse of
tomorrow.