Retiring to Lancashire

Hi Jane interesting post! We have bought another semi which has been extended to include a downstairs wet room which is supposed to be en suite but I think we will have a hard time fitting a bed in said bedroom! There is a study which I think would make a bedroom on the ground floor. At the moment we don't really need these facilities but it will be nice especially when our children visit.
Your life sounds very hectic! Unfortunately DH Mum is the only parent we have left between us and we are both the eldest in our families. So we should be the elderly relatives but at the moment we are still fit and now looking forward to exploring our new area. Thanks for your thoughts ?
Hi Sherish I think the weather may be warmer here but we can compete with any where with rain fall!
Feeling better now and I am really looking forward to meeting lots of new friendly people.
Thanks everyone ??

Babs do you think it could be the fact that you are moving back to the town you grew up in? All feels a bit 'full circle' ? would a different town/village in Lancashire be a better choice?

I live in Lancashire.

What I learnt about The requirements of Old Age/ downsizing/ moving

I am downsizing, after living with my in laws for two months. They are in their 90s.
I realised after looking after them that I need a semi detached and neighbours. ( In case I am left alone) I need to be near a hospital as you have a window of about 3 hours to get to help if you have a stroke. ( my DCs are Doctors) We spent an awful lot of time with my in laws ferrying them to hospital.
You need an Ensuite wet room ( my Father loved a bath so we had to haul him upstairs and lever him into the bath as he was too stingy/ set in his ways / to install a bathroom downstairs. You need three bedrooms in total. One bedroom each, and one for a carer/ relative staying in an emergency. Very little garden, as when you can't do it any more, who is going to keep it tidy? We have spent hours and hours, after travelling over 100 miles, clearing up gardens. We are still doing it!
Plus we have bought funeral plans and have set up power of attorney and given our Children copy of our wills.
Put your affairs in order and sort out your possessions is my mantra.

I expect to live a long time as I am fit , but I don't want to do what my Father ( died 96) MIL, and FIL and step MIL ( all over 90) have done to us children by refusing to acknowledging that they are aging and living in totally unsuitable accommodation with acres and acres of ground.
We keep responding to crisis after crisis and we are retired ourselves. Their mantra is ' we don't want to move' we want you to come and look after us whenever we fall etc.
Talk about burying your head in the sand.
Caring for our old folks , who I do love, has been a big learning curve. I do absolutely dread clearing another house out, yet again.
Sorry that I hijacked your post.
I have lived in Lancashire for 30 years and it is beautiful. The people are the best.

Good luck for your move. Hopefully you will settle in very quickly and make a lovely group of friends. I am in the North and apart from the weather which isn't as nice as Devon we are a generally friendly welcoming lot.

Thanks for all your replies I've only just seen them!
Yes Greyduster he tells me we are moving to the dark side ? ? Well I feel better already and I do believe the people are friendly. My DH is retiring just before we go - I retired last July and love it. So a whole new life awaits!!
Thanks for all your positive comments it means a lot. ?

Thanks Willow if we had someone nearer it would have made a difference. One of my reasons was the feeling that one of us is going to be left on our own and I didn't want that. We do have friends and we shall be sorry to leave them but we will always visit DD so we should keep in touch. Anyway your positive thoughts have given me a boost? I am just getting over a virus so maybe that's the cause of all the negativity. Onwards and upwards!!
?? for you Willow

Your DH is a Yorkshireman and he's moving to Lancashire??? . Only joking!. Moving from one part of the country to another is always daunting - we've done it a few times. Lancashire is a lovely county with, more importantly, lovely people and I'm sure once you settle in and become part of the community you'll wonder what you worried about. If you don't like it, just hop across the border - we'll have you! . Good luck!

I am in Lancashire, good luck with the move, you will find us a friendly lot, although you will be used to us as you were born here. Hope your DD will enjoy visiting, our beautiful countryside and good coastal towns.
I enjoy the company of my women friends in the WI, we are very welcoming to new members. It sounds like your DH has his own connections, so I hope you can make some too. It's normal to have some anxieties isn't it, hopefully all will be well.

I can totally relate to your feelings as I indicated in another thread we are so undecided about doing something similar and I'm so scared of even starting. It sounds as though you've made all the right choices about where to relocate to and will have plenty of people nearer to you to visit and be visited by. I'd like to move back to my roots up north but it wouldn't be practical in our circumstances as we'd be further away from our son and his family. I'm sure anyone would be nervous about a big change but think of it as a whole new life ahead of you and all the fun of planning and getting to know your new surroundings. Good luck with the house sale/purchase - envious that you've taken the plunge!