Annifrance, everyone is entitled to their opinion. No animal is purposely cruel, they kill to survive. Only humans have the mindset to be deliberately cruel either for greed or so called 'sport'.
Good Morning Saturday 1st August 2026
I have a mock fur 'Russian style' hat that I've worn outdoors over the last 3 years, it keeps my ears warm
. I got it from New Look, so it's obviously not the real thing.
Yesterday for the first time I had a snide remark from a young woman who on passing me hissed 'Fur - murderer'. I was shocked and stopped her to explain that it's not real fur, but she argued the toss responding it was wrong to wear even imitation fur. As an active anti blood sports person, I'm feeling rather confused and shaken by this.
What do other GN'rs think about wearing nylon fur? I've looked for a similar design hat in different colours (eg: purple) but it only only seems to come in beige 'rabbit' or grey 'wolf'?, 'squirrel'?
Annifrance, everyone is entitled to their opinion. No animal is purposely cruel, they kill to survive. Only humans have the mindset to be deliberately cruel either for greed or so called 'sport'.
Totally out of order to comment on your fake fur hat. None of her business.
I will stick my neck out here and say that I wear the mink coats I inherited from my mother. I don't think I would buy one nowadays. It's been dead for decades and minks are vermin and very nasty, rather meet a rat. I only wear it because it is very cold here in winter and that is what animal skins are for, not for show.
there has to be a balance between nature and practicality. I totally endorse the need for keeping animals for whatever purpose in humane conditions.
I am anti vegetarian because I consider that we were given an alimentary system and set of teeth that dictates that we are omnivores. Nature is cruel and hunter gatherer is the human condition, if taken to the limit then vegetarianism would unbalance Nature. If hunting is to be it should be for practical reasons, used for food or safety. We live in an area of France where the hunt is king. I hate guns, but it is so controlled here whereby there is a quota for deer and for boar and sometimes hare according to that years population, and a quota for each hunter. Therefore it is a genuine cull which can be very necessary, and it is done for food. Boars are dangerous creatures and I notice that they are getting closer to our property now and it doesn't fill me with joy.
I am pro fox hunting as the huntsman know what they are doing and not subjecting this beautiful creature to being shot at or trapped and left to die in agony. Lead hound kills instantaineously and the chase is part of the animal condition. Nature is cruel. I get very upset when I see emaciated, disease ridden urban foxes running around. A cull is so necessary in many British towns nowadays, due to stupid townsfolk feeding them and then wonder why their bins are raided and children attacked in bed. A fox is a cruel and beautiful creature. They kill for pleasure. My OH wouldn't let me see the carnage when our free range poultry run was massacred - and he had to go and finish the job on many of them.
My part of England is overrun with deer which is now becoming very, very dangerous with some really awful car crashes all because they are not hunted and culled.
Not keen on Hooray Henrys raising pheasants and then popping off their guns at them just to impress city bankers or like. Shoot the pheasants by all means if it is for food, but keep the business/social life out of it.
Gone of thread. Wear you furs - fake or otherwise, your choice and enjoy.
I saw a documentary about small leather items being made from dogs - strays or kidnapped, rounded up off the streets in China, and kept and killed in terrible conditiond. When I next put on my leather gloves I ckecked the label - made in china - and felt sick. I bought woollen mittens.
WilmaKnickersfit and Judthepud2 - interesting points. I have also seen a documentary about the reindeer herders and feel that it is an acceptable use of animals even though I am a strict vegetarian - almost vegan. The reindeers are treated with respect and love. The people and the reindeers share their lives and it is not exploitation, just survival.
Donating fur to animals sanctuaries is a good idea so at least the poor animals didn't die in vain and the rescue animals find some comfort. (as long as the fur coats don't stink of moth balls!)
Boheminan - wear your fake furry bonnet and enjoy it! No beautiful animal has suffered for your hat. Be proud and confident! 
absent when my Granny died we had the same problem with the full length fur coat she bought when my GPs won the football pools in the 1970s. Nobody in the family wanted it and as you say, charity shops are not interested either. By chance I mentioned the problem to a friend who fosters cats and she told me that animal sanctuaries take fur, where it's used to comfort animals recovering from injury or orphaned baby animals. So my Granny's pride and joy went to a local small animal sanctuary 
Not wholly relevant, but possibly interesting. Disapproval and rejection of wearing fur products has been powerful in the UK for a fairly long time – possibly since I was a teenager back in the 1960s, but certainly since the 1970s. Not necessarily so in the rest of Europe. A few years ago I was in Italy on a business trip and was taken out for dinner by the supplier's representative (ironically, another woman, given that it was 14 February) on St Valentine's Day – a big event in Italy with spectacular menus (seriously yum dinner). The middle-to-top restaurant in Vicenza was packed and I think only my host and I were the only women not wearing fur (or diamonds). I am also sure that I have seen quite a lot of luxurious furs adorning beautiful women in the USA too.
When I was clearing my late mother's house, I was seriously worried about what to do with her precious and treasured fur coats, wraps and stoles. I suspect that most charity shops won't take them because of aggressive animal rights protestors and, equally, I am not comfortable with animal furs, except on animals. These were all, obviously, some years old but nevertheless, I had no desire to keep them. Eventually, I trashed them but I knew that my mama would have been horrified at the waste of such warm and elegant wear.
Good point about cold climates Conni7 Indigineous people who live within the Arctic Circle wear animal furs to prevent themselves dying of hypothermia! Fake fur just wouldn't do the job. I went to visit a Sami Family in Norway some years ago. It was -20C. They were all wearing coats, hats and footwear made from reindeer hide and were much warmer than we were in our thermals and artificial lined coats. Their tent was covered in reindeer hide, we sat inside by the fire on reindeer hides and we ate reindeer stew (delicious). These people lived with and for their reindeer. Followed them for hundreds of miles a year as they migrated in search of food and treated them with great respect as their only capital.
I wonder how that rude young women would have responded to this. I don't agree with wearing real fur as a fashion statement, but there is a case for it in certain parts of the world.
I knew that most of the leather used to make most of our shoes and bags comes from animals killed for their skin in inhumane conditions, but I didn't want to make this thread about animal welfare and cruelty. It did used to be the case when most of the leather came from South America, but these days it comes from Asia, including countries like India and China.
Bear meat is eaten mainly by the local people who hunt and kill the animals for food and the skin. A large number of bears are hunted for sport, mainly by serious hunters who pay to go on guided trips. The animals are processed in the hunting camps and usually the hunters keep the parts they want and the rest is taken by the guides, so there's little waste. In places like Alaska, outside the cities the local people eat bear meat (and moose meat) in the same way we eat beef and that includes burgers. Irresponsible hunters are frowned upon.
In some countries a licence is needed to hunt bear and often the number of licences is restricted each year to the number that will keep the bear population under control. These licences are usually allocated through a lottery draw and people who get a licence can only kill a single adult bear in a season, and it's illegal to kill females with cubs.
Obviously we read about bears being slaughtered for body parts for use in Chinese medicine. I avoid the PETA website because I find the images too upsetting.
Sorry, I missed that, ana. My view is that we should be arguing for an end to cruel practices, not avoiding leather, which is an extremely useful and good material, far better than synthetic equivalents. I can understand someone avoiding using leather in an attempt to reduce the demand for it but I'd rather work towards improving the conditions of farmed animals through organisations like Compassion in World Farming because I don't think it is unethical to eat meat or to use animal skins and fur with the provisos we've both given.
(Not fake fur heat - fur HAT
I thought this thread had dropped off the edge of GN Land, but I'm pleased it hasn't, as there's been some interesting points made.
K8tie your comment comparing attitudes to fake fur possibly being applied to Quorn and alternatives to meat, I can see happening. I have veggie friends who can't see the point of having 'alternative meat products ' their argument being 'why eat something that tastes like dead animal'. I'm veggie by choice (I'm happy to share a table with a meat eating friend, I personally don't like the taste of blood) and I like Quorn, as it brings a different texture (more than taste) to meals.
Leather always seems to have been an issue. I wear leather shoes - like others here, I assumed leather to be a by-product of the slaughtered animal - I stand corrected.
I have carried on wearing my fake fur heat but feel kind of miserable and defensive wearing it now
That was the point I made, thatbags, but apparently according to UkeCan61 the production of leather products is a cruel industry in certain countries.
I agree, farnorth, that there's nothing 'wrong' with avoiding fur or leather even if one eats meat (it's just a choice), but why is it cruel to use the leather or fur of an animal that one has eaten? Isn't using it better than wasting it?
If the animals we eat have a good life and a humane death, where does cruelty come into the equation?
There is nothing wrong with someone avoiding the use of animal fur, even if they eat meat, wear leather, whatever.
Any step towards reducing cruelty is worth doing.
(I don't support action of the person mentioned in the OP, tho, who sounds a bit silly.)
My daughter is a strict vegan, but loves fake fur - as do I. She comments that some vegans are so full of their principles that they seem to enjoy causing upset to others who may have less extreme beliefs. I don't like to see animals treated cruelly, but haranguing someone for wearing fake fur is just plain ridiculous!
I hope that the stupid person learns to mind her own business. Carry on wearing your cosy hat, and I shall think of you when I wear my (fake) fur-lined coat. 
I wonder how she would cope if she lived in Russia - sometimes at minus 40
degrees?
I am an animal lover, and I have 2 fake fur coats, ones leopard print , as I love big cats, but wouldn't dream of wearing a real one, although no one would think mine are real, and teddy bears are made of fake fur and have been for years, and some kids tv characters, we can't stop everything that someone disagrees with, and it's no ones business what you wear, you're not asking them to buy it for you,so keep wearing your nice hat keep your self cosy! And yes I thought the picture of the hat was something edible too.
My husband just went to great lengths to find the car he wanted without
leather seats because he knows I wouldn't be happy about sitting on leather. 
That said, fleece jackets and goretex waterproofs do have their place in modern society, if only because they dry quickly.
Yes, I can believe that, elegran. I'm not keen on synthetics because they are so non-breathable (despite the hype!). Besides, they're made, ultimately, from oil which is made, ultimately, from dead animals.
Presumably bear meat can be eaten, e.g. by carnivores in zoos, or even by people. Has anyone ever eaten bear meat? What's it like? I doubt if bears are killed only for their fur.
I seem to remember reading ages ago that fake fur for the Guards' bearskins would be unbearably sweaty and would look bedraggled in the least rain.
I don't hold with killing animals in their prime just to get their fur in perfect condition. I could never have an animal's head on the wall even if killed for meat because to me that is yukkie. However, animal's fur is beautiful to look at and to touch so I see no reason not to copy it and wear products made from it.
Ypu wear your hat! Enjoy it.
Is it just me but did anyone else think the photograph of the hat was a Yorkshire pudding?
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