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kittylester Sat 06-Feb-16 08:03:05

can I make a plea that people read the thread before posting.

In the last couple of days I have seen a few threads where people have either repeated previous posts with no acknowledgement or asked questions that have been asked and answered previously. I realise that in fast moving threads it can happen but im not talking about those.

Obviously, this is a greater sin when it is my posts that have been ignored! grin

Indinana Sun 07-Feb-16 08:31:57

confused

Thebeeb Sat 06-Feb-16 22:37:51

Sorry just in case.

WilmaKnickersfit Sat 06-Feb-16 22:27:36

It bugs me too when I've posted something and later someone else says virtually the same thing. And yes, it's even more irritating if they get a response and I didn't, especially if it's about a link we both posted. But this says more about me than anything else tbh and I just try to let it go.

However, I do agree with POGS about taking the time to read through post about more serious subjects. My reasons for doing this is to respect the other posters and not look stupid.

Re posting a reply after reading through several pages, what I do is type my reply in stages on a notepad app and then copy and paste it in the reply box. Easy peasy.

Indinana Sat 06-Feb-16 22:27:36

Re getting all the posts on one page, I have a Show all messages option at the top of the thread. Click on that and 5 pages on this thread become one long one.

confused. I don't have that option. Not on my laptop, nor on the mobile site on my iPhone. I've even checked my iPad to see if for any strange reason that is different, but it's not. Where does it say that on yours Purpledaffodil?

rubylady Sat 06-Feb-16 22:17:51

Sausages.

Purpledaffodil Sat 06-Feb-16 21:26:19

Re getting all the posts on one page, I have a Show all messages option at the top of the thread. Click on that and 5 pages on this thread become one long one.

thatbags Sat 06-Feb-16 21:11:32

Quite often I start reading a thread and some way into it get to a point I want to address, so I do that. Then I don't always read the rest of the thread.

I also agree with whoever (*jings*?) said that if the thread title is a question, then you can just jump in and answer the question without looking to see what other people have said. Others may have given the same answer in effect but I don't think that matters. It can be quite good to have a lot of people giving you the same answer.

Judthepud2 Sat 06-Feb-16 20:25:48

Anya smile Hello Nelliemoser

I'm not really paranoid about not being responded to. Not sure though about the 'like' button. It could cause people to feel a bit inadequate. I'm used to Twitter but sometime if I make a 'witty' comment on there, I wonder why no one responds. Sad, aren't I? Must get a life, or grow a pair wink

Nelliemoser Sat 06-Feb-16 17:50:58

Thank you so much Galen and Synonymous. I no longer feel invisible!
wink

Jalima Sat 06-Feb-16 17:27:08

I mean cooked, but just strange and dense, even the seagulls refused it.

Jalima Sat 06-Feb-16 17:26:38

Any banana cake I have attempted lately hasn't just had a soggy bottom, it has been soggy all the way through [why]

Jalima Sat 06-Feb-16 17:25:35

shortish chat type threads.
A bit like a couple of people I know then, who don't chat but completely ignore what you have just said then carry on down their own road and then repeat what you said five minutes before, thinking it's their own thoughts
It's not really a conversation grin

POGS Sat 06-Feb-16 16:57:19

Just watching the Sport Relief Bake Off and I am going to try the banana and raisin muffins. Hope you don't have a soggy bottom like Ed Balls jingle. smile

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 06-Feb-16 16:49:09

I think I will go and make a real cake. To cheer up a rainy afternoon. smile

POGS Sat 06-Feb-16 16:43:26

Perhaps I made a mistake by using the word statement , maybe I should have said only interested in their own contribution ,thought. Is that better. [cake]

kittylester Sat 06-Feb-16 16:41:29

I'm not really talking about advice threads where I would agree with your method, but shortish chat type threads.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 06-Feb-16 16:34:59

I mean, if advice is asked, why should we need to know what others think?

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 06-Feb-16 16:32:07

I don't think there is anything wrong in simply making your own statement. Perhaps best not to be influenced by what others say. We must not be tempted to adopt a 'sheep' attitude.

kittylester Sat 06-Feb-16 16:30:03

And, I agree with POGS, smile

Jalima Sat 06-Feb-16 16:28:56

I thought I had done it too, and it has on this thread but not on others.
Going to do something else now smile

Indinana Sat 06-Feb-16 16:26:37

Sorry, 'save options' not changes.

Indinana Sat 06-Feb-16 16:25:22

Found it Indinana, it's under 'customise'!
Yes I know it is Jalima. That's where I go to try to change it, but every time I hit 'save changes, it just reverts to 100.

kittylester Sat 06-Feb-16 16:25:07

I have my threads set up so they are all continuous, on one page confused

POGS Sat 06-Feb-16 16:21:15

Jalima

I was talking in general , sorry please don't think I was reponding to your posts.

Jalima Sat 06-Feb-16 16:16:10

It's because I was going back reading through the thread before replying that I got in a muddle with replying though, POGS

I could be sorted now!