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Alea Sun 13-Dec-15 07:44:17

Soontobe has made a point that there should be more diversity on GN.
What do others think?
It is a tricky one because first of all GN is open to all who choose to contribute, but obviously self-selecting to a degree just by the site name and target group.
It is also hard to establish the degree of diversity among members as we retain anonymity and are under no obligation to reveal or even refer to ethnic background, religious affiliation, physical or any other disability, political inclination ( well some people are very clear on that, but not necessarily all) education, age, colour or shoe size.
So who's to say?
Does it really matter?
tchconfused

Anniebach Tue 15-Dec-15 09:28:08

Come off it jingle, you are no different , why do some suddenly become holier then thou

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 15-Dec-15 09:25:17

Galen is not the only one who could be thinking of sodding off from Gransnet. And it won't be because of anything soon has said!

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 15-Dec-15 09:23:55

I have read a bit more of this thread than I had when I responded in a joking manner. I am horrified.

My God! Some of you would not have got away with some of these posts if I had been on Gransnet on Sunday! Disgraceful!

Totally nasty. Why was this thread started at all? To provide entertainment? Yes. I think so. Eurgh!

Anniebach Tue 15-Dec-15 08:30:38

I agree , it was a pity one poster kicked off again

petallus Tue 15-Dec-15 08:14:52

It should be possibly to find something tiring, irritating or whatever and still not descend to the kind of behaviour which has been going on on this thread though.

Anniebach Mon 14-Dec-15 23:25:28

I really don't want to add more to this but I think all this came about not because of an opinion but a stance , it gets tiring if one decides not to answer a question to keep things calm and then gets asked over and over and over for answer

WilmaKnickersfit Mon 14-Dec-15 23:05:02

Wish I didn't sound so pompous blush

WilmaKnickersfit Mon 14-Dec-15 22:55:02

Ana I didn't realise until later about the comments on the other thread, but either way this thread makes pretty unpleasant reading and I wasn't taking sides. I did think Iam64's comment about tanks and lawn was pretty good because I have been taken aback by some of the things soon says, but it takes all sorts to make life interesting. I prefer to pick my battles where I choose and usually focus on a stance rather than one person and their opinions.

Ana Mon 14-Dec-15 22:32:00

And it was started as a result of comments made on another thread on which accusations and insinuations were made. All a bit of a mess, really, but not fair to lay blame purely on one side.

Ana Mon 14-Dec-15 22:27:38

Have you read the thread in its entirety, Wilma? It's not simply a case of someone being a bit different.

WilmaKnickersfit Mon 14-Dec-15 22:22:33

Considering this thread is about diversity, it's done a pretty good job of showing what can happen when one person is a bit different.

petallus Mon 14-Dec-15 22:17:10

i also agree with granjura. Witch-hunt is exactly the right word. Horribly unpleasant.

rosequartz Mon 14-Dec-15 21:31:39

Actually, soon didn't start the thread, and it did become quite confrontational quite quickly; I think she was trying to defend herself against something she didn't really start.
I'm sorry now about a couple of my posts - I won't delete them because they were meant to be jokey and not unkind, but if someone is feeling a bit beleaguered, back against the wall, it wouldn't have helped.

I agree with granjura

absent Mon 14-Dec-15 20:28:06

bags For the record, I suggested that, in general, women are chattier than men, not that they talk more.

Ana Mon 14-Dec-15 19:32:41

My post of 15.48 was on the subject of diversity, which is what the thread was originally supposed to be about...

Iam64 Mon 14-Dec-15 18:39:24

I don't want to be petty granjura but the phrase she put her tanks on everyone else's lawns springs to mind.

granjura Mon 14-Dec-15 18:13:24

Now I often do not agree with soon- but I do wish you'd stop this witch-hunt, really!

Galen Mon 14-Dec-15 18:00:32

?sorry no! But here's the Invisible Pink Unicorn for you!

thatbags Mon 14-Dec-15 17:56:35

Does anyone have a really good duck emoji? Bung it on this thread if you do, please.

kittylester Mon 14-Dec-15 17:33:49

Fortuitously, an Asian person (female!) has started a thread on 'care'.

rosesarered Mon 14-Dec-15 16:46:15

This thread seems to be headed for more unpleasantness, so having briefly looked in, am leaving.✈️

jinglbellsfrocks Mon 14-Dec-15 16:35:26

soon is definitely a woman. She thinks like one. tchsmile Bless her.

TriciaF Mon 14-Dec-15 16:34:03

Come to think of it, we don't even know if soontobe is male or female, black or white or other. I don't think we have a photo of this person.
I do miss male input on here though.

Ana Mon 14-Dec-15 15:48:49

I suppose skin colour and hair type would be relevant on certain of the Style and Beauty threads. Can't think of anywhere else though!

thatbags Mon 14-Dec-15 15:35:15

That's my feeling too, bnonna. Most of the time it's not relevant to anything just as other incidental facts about one's appearance aren't.