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whitewave Wed 28-Oct-15 15:20:52

Apparently the Outer Hebrides and the most miserable Wolverhampton.

If I could do it I would put on a photo to show the South Downs is rather nice as well! Not sure about happiest though?

TheMillersTale Thu 29-Oct-15 17:22:22

DownTo

I think you have first dibs on any sort of Barking smile

Norfolk is a place I am very fond of and visit often, being a mere ten miles away from us....

Greenfinch Thu 29-Oct-15 16:23:39

newist, I echo that about the politeness of the youngsters. We were in Barra one year and travelled round by public transport which also served as the school bus. Each child was dropped at his drive and as it was exam time ,each youngster politely thanked the driver and told him if they were going to school the next day so that he didn't have to make any unnecessary stops.

newist Thu 29-Oct-15 16:06:34

Greenfinch one of my big regrets in life is, I wish I could of brought my children up here. The nurseries so I am told speak Gaelic with the little ones so they naturally become bilingual. The education system is excellent with a very high proportion going to university. the down side to that is, many have to leave, to find employment, some are lucky enough to come back home. We have never met a youngster who is not polite.
We have also never experienced any, so called ageism, because apparently many have Grandparents which are still valued as useful members of the community

Greenfinch Thu 29-Oct-15 15:34:10

newist,if I could ,I would up sticks tomorrow and live where you do.I would take my DGC with me as I think it is a perfect place for children to grow up. We went to Mull in the summer and DGS desperately wants to go back again .There were all sorts of things for them to do without resorting to expensive theme parks and leisure facilities .They enjoyed wandering around at night along the seashore with their torches and SiL looking for mini-beasts and listening out for animal sounds .They just loved exploring.

Unfortunately I would not be able to take DC with me to live there because of the lack of employment. They need to stay in SE.

KatyK Thu 29-Oct-15 14:35:29

Elrel I have lived in Birmingham all my life and am used to people bashing Birmingham and the Black Country, mostly people who have never been or have only passed through. We live very near to the Black Country now and parts of it are lovely smile

downtoearth Thu 29-Oct-15 14:22:00

I grew up in Barking ...does that count...and am now over the border in Norfolk that has its own tales to tell...grin

newist Thu 29-Oct-15 14:19:25

roses sorry about that,I think I am quite defensive of where I live, probably because so many people, when I told them where I was going to live, said we must be mad and would regret it. flowers for you

TheMillersTale Thu 29-Oct-15 13:22:29

Do! We love barking people here, the more the merrier!

Tegan Thu 29-Oct-15 13:20:42

If Suffolk is 'slightly barking' I think I need to visit it #maytbemyspiritualhome

TheMillersTale Thu 29-Oct-15 13:11:36

What happened was that in the book, Pongo and Perdita visited Sudbury on their search for their stolen puppies. They drank from a water trough that was apparently based upon the one outside a local church.

So Sudbury has commemorated this 'legend' by creating a Pongo bronze statue as part of its Talbot Trail around the town and there is a brand new recently opened water feature there now too.

I did write about it but don't want to look as though i am spamming or self promoting.

Tegan Thu 29-Oct-15 11:49:26

Gosh; so 101 Dalmations was actually based on a legend.

TheMillersTale Thu 29-Oct-15 11:13:39

Suffolk seems fairly happy. I write about it a lot on my blog and in our local paper and enjoy interviewing local people about the things they get up to.

It's one of those places that is slightly barking, certainly quirky (even our walls are crinkle crankle!). I wrote this about the county once and I hope some of you might be persuaded to come join us in our watery county with its semi permeable coastal edges which change shape all the time!

Suffolk, the curious county, has its well known tales of saints and martyrs, of a great book that underpins the laws of the land and towering church edifices where queens lie. We have villages under the sea, a ghost writer who once lived in a spectre infested village and roaming black dogs with eyes of carmine fire. There are stories of tamer beasts too: of binary patterned Dalmatians who drank from a church horse trough as they searched for their stolen 101 puppies; the poor entombed mummified cats found walled up in Tudor buildings throughout the county and the gentle giant working horses that ploughed our fields. We have curious place names (Finger Bread Hill, Beggars Bush, Wherstead Ooze, Burnt Dick Hill and Smear Marshes) and architecture that spits in the face of straightness (the crinkle crankle walls of Bramfield and Tudor squew whiffness of Lavenham) but look a little harder and you will find thousands of smaller stories too within this big, bold narrative.

Elrel Thu 29-Oct-15 10:54:35

Thanks KatyK - so easy to sneer at Wolverhampton and the Black Country. Especially if you've never been, only passed through or were a teenager longing to leave home.
Apparently Bournville is one of the happiest places to live. It must have been great in the days of George Cadbury. Paternalistic but eager for his workers to be healthy and happy, some of the ethos is still there.

Luckygirl Thu 29-Oct-15 10:40:40

Well - not even sunshine - just daylight!

Luckygirl Thu 29-Oct-15 10:40:13

Part of the research that is quoted in the book about Denmark being the happiest place to live is to do with genes. Apparently there is a happiness gene, and, because the Danes are historically inbred, more Danes have it.

From the descriptions of the Danish winter - 1.5 hours of sunshine a DAY!!! - it is hard to imagine how they can be happy!

rosesarered Thu 29-Oct-15 09:18:48

we all want different things from life, I like villages best, but to be near towns when I want to go there.

rosesarered Thu 29-Oct-15 09:16:27

* Newist* I was talking about Wolverhampton house prices.I have no idea how much housing costs where you are.smile

numberplease Thu 29-Oct-15 01:38:25

Anno, don`t get TOO excited!

newist Wed 28-Oct-15 23:24:36

rosesarered it is true some houses here are cheaper, they are mainly cheaper because land to build cost less than else where, there is a lot of land not built on, our house was not cheap to build because of transport cost. every thing has to be brought onto the Island, building material, food, clothes etc.

newist Wed 28-Oct-15 23:12:49

I second Granny23 on The Outer Hebrides being a lovely place to live. I have lived in many parts of the UK, to me this is a magic place, The best here in my opinion apart from the wonderful scenery and wild life, is the people, they are the kindest most caring people I have ever known

Eloethan Wed 28-Oct-15 23:00:26

These reports are daft aren't they. Some people - perhaps because of their own cheery dispositions or perhaps because they are quite comfortably off - are happy wherever they live. Some people - however fortunate they may be - are glum by nature.

On the other hand, I've noticed in these "Best and Worst Places to Live" studies, that the best areas are often the most affluent ones and vice versa for the worst. I expect it is easier to be happy in an attractive town with high employment and good amenities than it is to be satisfied with a run down town with boarded up shops, high crime rates and poor amenities.

Cherrytree59 Wed 28-Oct-15 22:49:14

Home is where the heart is.
A front door you can close against the world if you so wish.
A welcome mat for friends a family.

annodomini Wed 28-Oct-15 22:43:01

You've sold it to me Granny23!

annodomini Wed 28-Oct-15 22:43:01

You've sold it to me Granny23!

annodomini Wed 28-Oct-15 22:43:01

You've sold it to me Granny23!