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Bitchin' or Banter?

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ramona Wed 07-Oct-15 17:06:53

I have "lurked" on Gransnet for a while and I am astonished at the amount of bitching going on here mainly amongst the usual crew of regular posters. Or is is just banter? I realise that political threads can get heated but even the lighter subjects often become littered with rude and sometimes very nasty comments. Or am I just too sensitive? Maybe this the norm on forums, even those for the more mature. I am new to this so don't know.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 08-Oct-15 15:38:47

Indinana unpleasant

Alea Thu 08-Oct-15 15:38:57

Spot on TriciaF, were you in another corner? grin

Alea Thu 08-Oct-15 15:39:55

Who or what is?

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 08-Oct-15 15:41:57

No! The missing word Indinana was enquiring about!

Alea Thu 08-Oct-15 15:46:47

Whew! smile?

NotTooOld Thu 08-Oct-15 16:37:25

Ramona - it does help to have a thick skin on GN because being 'grans' certainly does not mean we are all sweetness and light. Perhaps you expect too much? We all have our own opinions, hang-ups and prejudices as well as our pet likes and dislikes. Most of us try to avoid hurting fellow GNetters and it is obviously good to respect the opinions of others but it would be a very boring forum if we agreed on everything without argument and, quite often, disagreement. I do wonder if your OP is deliberately designed to cause controversy? hmm

kittylester Thu 08-Oct-15 17:01:44

And, as someone (maybe jing?) said ^ ^ ^, quite rude to comment on our behaviour as your first post (well, the first I had seen and I apologise if it wasn't!)). We all jog along fairly well despite appearances and if you don't like it please find a forum that is all sweetness and light.

granjura Thu 08-Oct-15 17:20:15

Perhaps this is not Ramona's first post- and she has changed her name- as so many seem to do regularly to create a new persona (it never works btw).
Ah well.

LullyDully Thu 08-Oct-15 17:33:20

Can be quite heated on here at times. Some threads do ramble off message fairly quickly and turn into a slanging match, without much provocation.

However if the alternative is platitudes we must be prepared for a,few sparks.

When you think the youngest Gran must be in her 40s and eldest 80s or 90s. We also come from all over the country and all sorts of lifestyles. Makes it harder to see eye to eye.

(Was surprised that someone didn't associate with the Who as their ' generation '. That's me getting old I suppose.)

rosequartz Thu 08-Oct-15 18:03:23

I do wonder if your OP is deliberately designed to cause controversy?
NotTooOld How could you suggest such a thing just what I was thinking too
hmm

granjura Thu 08-Oct-15 18:31:28

which is indeed why I believe this poster has been here before with another name wine

Ana Thu 08-Oct-15 18:41:10

Well, of course the OP was deliberately provocative, but at least it was well-written, with no glaring grammatical or spelling errors! Better than yet another thread about 'school shoes' anyway...wink

Galen Thu 08-Oct-15 18:47:20

I want an accent as well! Should I have it on the e Galęn or the a Gãlen?

NotTooOld Thu 08-Oct-15 19:08:11

Galen - why not both?! Go for it.

Ana Thu 08-Oct-15 19:10:47

But don't expect everyone to use them - I only know how to do the acute one!

loopylou Thu 08-Oct-15 19:37:26

Gâlën?
Ånâ - looks like a halo on the 1st A!

granjura Thu 08-Oct-15 19:40:40

éöàäèüç

they are all right here, on my keyboard- hurrah. And jolly useful they are here too!

One of my students once said to me 'what's the point of those accents- they don't make no difference (sic)'

so I wrote on the board:

repétez SVP
and
répétez SVP

and did explain that it made a massive difference smile lol

Lona Thu 08-Oct-15 19:40:42

Ana You've always been the acute one! wink

Ana Thu 08-Oct-15 19:42:05

Tee hee! How do you do those accents? Is it complicated, or are you all on smart phones?

Ana Thu 08-Oct-15 19:42:46

Lona, I can do grave as well...wink

granjura Thu 08-Oct-15 19:58:24

I used to know the codes by heart for accents on my old UK computer- forgotten now. As said, on this French keyboard they are all here in place of other key on the right-hand side.

Anybody got the difference between

répétez SVP and repétez SVP - for a bit of banter smile

Lona Thu 08-Oct-15 20:09:03

Ana why don't you Google it? I don't know how to on computers.

Anã Anâ Anä Anå
I think you look nice with a hat on! smile

loopylou Thu 08-Oct-15 20:26:59

If you type A or a but hold the key down, you'll get a selection of accents, the same for e, o etc. just slide your finger across to the one you fancy want (that's if using iPad). On a laptop or computer just do the same with your finger or the mouse.

Ana Thu 08-Oct-15 20:32:26

That doesn't work on my laptop, loopy!

Well of course I could google, Lona - just thought there might be a simple way of doing it which didn't involve codes etc. smile

Ana Thu 08-Oct-15 20:35:28

That doesn't work on my laptop, loopy!

Well of course I could google, Lona - just thought there might be a simple way of doing it which didn't involve codes etc. smile