I am coming on to Chat to say I am sorry but I have decided to de activate my Gransnet account
I am sorry to leave you all and all your kind talks and help
I am doing it for security reasons as I was until yesterday also a member of Mumsnet.
I have been outed on MN and I had a suspicion that my account was hacked
The person who outed me was a work mate of my ex DIL and this person poured oil on already troubled waters by telling her I had made negative comments about her on MN
I have done an advanced search on MN of all my postings and could not in all honesty find anything which could be construed as "slagging her off" which the words DIL claimed I had said.
I am aware that I have posted on GN about my DS's marriage breakdown but any negative comments I made were towards DIL's mother and not her.
I confess to giving away too much information on these posts so think it is best I leave all sites where messages can be posted
I have learned a hard cruel lesson so hope no one else suffers the same fate
My parting words are "Be careful what you post"
Goodbye all and thank you I shall miss you
Bonnie Blue the MSM should stop all reporting.
Cookery books and other books - are you keeping them ?
What has survived in your garden with minimal or no watering?
Daughter not allowed to know new baby’s name until she visits him


I hope you come back! Don't give them such power!
