Would you ask your neighbour for a cup of sugar?

We are so lucky to have always had brilliant neighbours, both in the UK and here- bar an old grumpy man one side, at our first house (who broke our cat's jaw by throwing a stone at him and not reporting it! - yes THAT cat!)...

we help each other out all the time, and yet without being toooo close. Sugar, tools, practical help in so many ways- looking after each other's pets and gardens during hols, etc. Great neighbours make a huge difference.

Having trouble with the pc/mobile phone as well?

wonders if the poster chaos has wandered over from MN

Thankgoodness for that Nellie. It is a bit embarrassing. I have done a report so hopefully they will all be deleted, all but one.

AlgeswifeVal These multiple posts are blip that happens every so often.
All the posts show exactly the same time and you cannot do that deliberately. (I once tried,)
It's not your fault. I am not sure any GNHQ techies have ever tried to explain this phenomemon.

whoa done something wrong. they are getting their revenge. Does anyone know how to delete a few unwanted posts.

I have trouble with my neighbours over parking. None of them are particularly friendly, might just comment on the weather that sort of thing. If I could change them I would. Not exactly neighbours from hell just people to avoid. My attitude is 'if these people are not important in my life then I don't worry about them', in other words they become invisible. No way would I ask any of them for a cup of sugar, sooner go without.

I have trouble with my neighbours over parking. None of them are particularly friendly, might just comment on the weather that sort of thing. If I could change them I would. Not exactly neighbours from hell just people to avoid. My attitude is 'if these people are not important in my life then I don't worry about them', in other words they become invisible. No way would I ask any of them for a cup of sugar, sooner go without.

I have trouble with my neighbours over parking. None of them are particularly friendly, might just comment on the weather that sort of thing. If I could change them I would. Not exactly neighbours from hell just people to avoid. My attitude is 'if these people are not important in my life then I don't worry about them', in other words they become invisible. No way would I ask any of them for a cup of sugar, sooner go without.

I have trouble with my neighbours over parking. None of them are particularly friendly, might just comment on the weather that sort of thing. If I could change them I would. Not exactly neighbours from hell just people to avoid. My attitude is 'if these people are not important in my life then I don't worry about them', in other words they become invisible. No way would I ask any of them for a cup of sugar, sooner go without.

I have trouble with my neighbours over parking. None of them are particularly friendly, might just comment on the weather that sort of thing. If I could change them I would. Not exactly neighbours from hell just people to avoid. My attitude is 'if these people are not important in my life then I don't worry about them', in other words they become invisible. No way would I ask any of them for a cup of sugar, sooner go without.

I have trouble with my neighbours over parking. None of them are particularly friendly, might just comment on the weather that sort of thing. If I could change them I would. Not exactly neighbours from hell just people to avoid. My attitude is 'if these people are not important in my life then I don't worry about them', in other words they become invisible. No way would I ask any of them for a cup of sugar, sooner go without.

I have trouble with my neighbours over parking. None of them are particularly friendly, might just comment on the weather that sort of thing. If I could change them I would. Not exactly neighbours from hell just people to avoid. My attitude is 'if these people are not important in my life then I don't worry about them', in other words they become invisible. No way would I ask any of them for a cup of sugar, sooner go without.

I have trouble with my neighbours over parking. None of them are particularly friendly, might just comment on the weather that sort of thing. If I could change them I would. Not exactly neighbours from hell just people to avoid. My attitude is 'if these people are not important in my life then I don't worry about them', in other words they become invisible. No way would I ask any of them for a cup of sugar, sooner go without.

I have been asked for matches, the drying room key and other bits and bobs from the neighbour across the foyer.

my neighbour popped out to see how I was after I faceplanted the grass outside the flats.. (must get the pliers out and close those hooks on my boots)

I wouldn't say any of our neighbours are our "friends" because we don't mix socially. But we get on extremely well and we buy birthday presents for our neighbours' two children and exchange Christmas cards - and they buy us a small food hamper. Our neighbours on the other side are also very nice but their social lives revolve round the church and, as non-believers ourselves, we don't have much in common. But the wife occasionally bakes bread, scones or rolls and brings some round to us - which is really nice of her.

I had a very dear neighbour who lived a few doors away from us. He was an elderly widower and used to come round to have a cup of tea and a chat. I was sorry when he moved to be near his daughter but we kept in touch by phone and letter. Sadly, he died a few years after moving.

When we were first married and lived in rented hospital accommodation, our neighbours were also people that my husband worked with and it was a very communal atmosphere. We are still friendly with one family after nearly forty years.

We've only had one set of neighbours that we really didn't get on with, when we lived in Horsham, so I suppose we've been quite lucky.

Each side of me are widowers who lost lovely and beloved wives a few years ago. One insists upon working in my front garden and the other has my key and alarm number. Both take in parcels for me, as do other neighbours, and the one with my key goes in and picks up my post when I'm away. I've borrowed a strimmer and a plane and been given the plane, tomatoes, beans and a garden chair. I take them cakes and share plants. One has space in his freezer so when I've filled my small one I take the overflow round. In fact our whole little terrace of 20 houses is very friendly and supportive when needed. Ex council houses, not a smart area, but I'm lucky to live there, I feel safe and although we don't spend time in each others' houses I know I'm among kind people.

My next door neighbour on the one side was very welcoming when I moved in and we now put out rubbish and water plants for each other when we go away, she will also take a parcel in for me if it arrives when I'm in work. The family across the road are friendly and will always chat if we're in the front garden/ drive at the same time and with both of these we send Xmas cards to each other. The family on the other side of me never speak unless I say hello to them and then they sometimes don't even answer me, I sent them a Xmas card when I first moved but never got one back. Some people just can't be bothered to be friendly but my other nice neighbour is really lovely and makes up for it, she knocked the door last week with a jar of home made chutney for me.

I moved to this road because in my old neighbourhood there were no women in my age group who spoke English. This road is a little better but many rented houses so neighbours change. However I joined the local church (different religion) who are very friendly and welcoming and through them now have quite a wide group of friendly acquaintences. Sadly few visitors yet calling for a cuppa and a natter but I live in hopes.

My neighbour has my key and burglar alarm code [in a sealed envelope]. When we first lived here [40 years ago] a lot of us realised we all had the same lock on our back doors which came in very handy at time. One day I realised on the way into town with the ex that I'd left something cooking in the over. Phoned up my neighbour who went round and took it out.Driving home the ex said 'why was Roger laughing at you when we drove up the road?'. It was quite sad when we all started to make our homes more fortress like. None of us are in and out of each others homes, but there is always a door to knock on if help is needed. I do wonder what it would be like living anywhere else; some of the neighbours have been here since the houses were built and people very rarely move away.

I have always been on good terms with neighbours, wherever we have lived( moved many times) and I could borrow something from several of our neighbours if I needed to.

I have been in my house 44 years and I have never borrowed anything from a neighbour. I am on good terms with them and keep an eye on the house when they are on holiday and take in their parcel deliveries. Neighbour once fixed my toilet cistern because DH worked away and I am useless at DIY.

Actually my new neighbour did call round a couple of weeks ago for a cup of sugar! They'd only recently moved in and were(still are) living with builders and upheaval and don't use sugar. Nice people, I think we'e going to get on.

I wish estate agents would cite "neighbourliness" (or lack thereof" in their blurb..

My neighbour is lovely,I often go in and have a chat with her,she hasn't been well and can't get about as good as me.If I needed a cup of sugar,I'm sure I could ask her.A young man the other side,he's in and out the driveway like a fart in a fanfare.Nice enough thou.

NotTooOld thank you for your concern .

I live in an old terrace house, and the neighbours stairs are next to my stair wall. They have a dear little dog with the biggest bark ever (imagine a Westie with the voice of a Doberman!) if she hears anything from my side of the wall, she barks (and barks and barks)...if she went on for three days, they may start to wonder if all was well my side of the wall).

The alarm you talk about, I believe can be obtained from Age Concern? I don't seriously feel in need of one at the moment - I'm in my mid sixties, am very active and in good health - but they do seem a comforting safety net in the case of someone living on their own. I'd seriously consider getting one if my health did deteriorate.