Alea I'm glad you have managed to contact pompa, I like to know that people are still alive and kicking!
DBH's depression continues and he has been signed off until Xmas, which is a bit worrying. He is better, but not yet there, by any means. The inlaws are here to check up on him, he is finding that a bit stressful but I can see that Mil wanted reassuring that her Baby is reasonably ok. I don't think she realises that she never stops talking, but that he needs quiet at the moment. As a result, he keeps on heading up to our room, or to his study, just to get a bit of peace. It has made me realise that a mother can believe that her presence is necessary for her child's recovery, but actually it could be a real hindrance! I must try to remember that with my own DS.