Out to lunch!

Oh, bless him! I expect he always opens the boot of the car for you to lug the weekly shopping into the house as well...

my OH is such a gent ,,,he always opens the doors for me to carry out the rubbish...

Well, that's what I thought, but I believed what jingl said...

Hmm, will have to check this out!

Don't doubt your word, but I have never heard that one Ana. If we are entering a room and there are doors to be opened, they are held open for me to enter. If there is a mad axeman waiting on the other side that's my tough luck! So far,so good!

One thing DH and son have always done is to stand when a female enters the room for the first time I.e.visitors not me

But apparently a gentleman should always precede a lady into a room, Greyduster!

I don't think any of it is old fashioned. DH helps me on with my coat and has never gone into a room before me, or any lady in our company, when we have been out. He doesn't hold the car door, but he does pull my chair out for me to sit down when we are eating out (our friend does the same for his wife - must be a hangover from dining in the Mess, when such things were absolutely expected!).

It is interesting how many men will stand "politely" back to allow their women-folk to precede them off a bus and take the high step down onto the curb. In this case a man should be going first.

And the same "polite" men let the women go first down the rather steep bus stairs while it is still moving erratically and jerking to a stop - with their (generally) longer legs they can negotiate a steep step better, and should really be below to give them something to land on if a jerky stop sends them off their balance.

Equality if a fine thing, but shorter arms and legs and less powerful muscles (for whatever reason - gender or age) do sometimes need consideration.

Oh, I thought it was the other way round jingl, but your way makes much more sense! There could be all sorts of riff-raff in that room...

A gentleman should always go into a room first, but I don't think anyone these days still know the old rules of etiquette.

I don't think I've ever had a chair pulled out for me (except possibly by a waiter), and the car door thing is rather old-fashioned, but I do prefer the man to walk on the kerb side of the pavement if they're with me!

What I hate is to be ushered into a room first!

Perhaps she has short arms. I have to practically get out of daughter's car to close the door.

Before remote locking I always unlocked and opened the passenger door for a companion of either sex rather than leave them standing while I got into the car. I don't do it now except for elderly people or anyone who needs help.

No they are a tiny little elderly couple. Pull their curtains every afternoon by 4pm winter and summer alike. Not that I am nosy or anything!

She wouldn't be called Hyacinth Bucket by any chance, would she ww?

Chap across the road always opens the car door for his wife, both getting in and out.