Thank you all!
Until being made redundant from a job I loved, I had had 2 employments that between the 2 of them covered 17 years, so you could say that I'm a "stayer".
The wilderness years after the redundancy from Mystery Shoppers in May 2012 have been difficult, in those three years I have probably had in excess of 12 jobs. In some cases I walked away, in others my services were dispensed with 
It knocks your confidence pretty hard, and there have been times when trying to "put myself back together" was daunting to say the least, not helped by the fact that I am still being treated for anxiety and depression.
However, here I am at the end of week 1 (I currently do just three days a week) and apart from speaking to you lovely people on line, I am also looking on line in my own time for ideas that may help the business.
The Boss keeps copying me on various things, with the added comment "you can take this over next month" so although nothing in life is a certainty, apart of course than death and taxes, it is looking quite good for being kept on!
He said that long term (get that, "LONG TERM" !) he would like me to take over the PAYE stuff, VAT returns etc. I haven't had the heart to tell him that numbers are really not my thing, and I have to take my shoes and socks off for any number over ten, but hey, never too old to learn new skills!
Now the soppy bit, the help (some with stuff like checking and re-vamping my CV, you know who you are!) has been invaluable, as is the support given during the ups and downs of it all, you must have got completely fed up with doing it again after every job change!
I so appreciate knowing that there are people out there, (some of whom I have never met] who have sent messages of support, you are a damn good lot, thank you all.
OK, soppy bit over, I will be back to inane ramblings/ observations about daft things that husbands & cats do.
R xx