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PRINTMISS Sat 20-Jun-15 08:14:08

I have been a little loath to start this discussion, because of course it is a rather shocking thing in my opinion which seems to have taken place without anyone being aware that three sisters were so unhappy in this country that they decided to take their children to a country we believe to be dangerous. I cannot understand how they could take their children from what appear to be loving fathers, and leave such sadness behind. My one wish for these sisters and their children is that they find what they are looking for in a country we are told is harsh and unforgiving, and will not regret their decision.

Ana Sat 20-Jun-15 18:13:31

You're missing the point, soon.

loopylou Sat 20-Jun-15 18:03:09

With the numbers entering the USA illegally from Central and South America I can understand the wish to fence the border, it's thousands of miles long and drug and gun running is also a horrendous problem where drug barons rule.
There was a programme about it a couple of weeks ago so I can understand why he made that statement. There are few policed border crossings so thousands come in illegally, mainly economic migrants from South America.

soontobe Sat 20-Jun-15 17:59:01

Ana. It is both isn't it. They have left their husbands, whatever they chose to do afterwards.

durhamjen Sat 20-Jun-15 17:51:56

Terribull, Donald Trump wishes to become the President of the United States. If he does, he says he will require Mexico to build a "great, great wall" on America's southern border and expect Mexico to pay for it.
We might laugh at the idea, but it could happen just as much as Hungary building a barrier between it and Serbia.

loopylou Sat 20-Jun-15 17:18:46

Refugees are very different to those joining ISIS dj from this country and from choice.

Those joining IS definitely shouldn't be allowed back under any circumstances; they've made the decision to support terrorists and therefore forfeit the right to return here and potentially recruit more.

Clearly these women don't want to be here therefore let them live with their decision,; sadly their children will probably be corrupted too and that's the consequence of their mothers' decision.

TerriBull Sat 20-Jun-15 17:15:26

"Many people from other countries feel unwanted in Britain today" I posted on another thread Hungary proposes to build a barrier along it's border with Serbia to keep migrants out and also have banners bearing "don't take Hungarian jobs" Eastern Europe generally have been appalling in the way they deal with their Roma populations. Meanwhile South Africans have been killing other Africans that have sought to find work there. I could go on, but my point is that it's a bit rich to single us out, there is plenty of national resentment all over the place it's not the preserve of Britons. I object strongly to that STUPID SIMPLIFICATION from the self serving European parliament president who is just trying to build a case against us having a say in the proposed referendum. This country has been better than most in assimilating foreigners, I'm glad to say that because some of my forebears came to this country to build a new life.

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 20-Jun-15 17:13:41

That Guardian link reminds me of teachers being told to praise their little darlings for any bit of effort they do actually manage to put in.

It doesn't work in classrooms. It shouldn't be necessary amongst grown-up people. hmm

Ana Sat 20-Jun-15 17:08:28

Why are you assuming they simply wanted to leave their husbands, soontobe?

jinglbellsfrocks Sat 20-Jun-15 17:07:53

At last we have a police force that will try to protect them. That won't happen in Syria.

soontobe Sat 20-Jun-15 17:05:59

I am on durhamjen's side. Yes, really.
If they leave their husbands, they dont feel safe in this country. They presume, rightly or wrongly, that some harm will come to them.

My question is. Are there safe houses in Britain for them? I assume there are, but I dont really know.
And who is to say that they know? Or are willing to go down that particular route.
And if and when they were to leave there, where are they going to go in Britain. Presumably people from their community would be on the look out for them.
I suppose they could go to an area in the UK without hardly any muslims. But they are likely to feel uncomfortable. And have little support.

durhamjen Sat 20-Jun-15 17:04:23

I find your posts ridiculous, too.
Baroness Warsi was named as Britain's most powerful Muslim woman, so I assume what she says has some authority. As she was in Cameron's government you are the one who should be sticking up for her. She is also a human rights lawyer, so maybe that's why you do not like her.

Ana Sat 20-Jun-15 17:04:00

I'm expecting a personal anecdote sooner or later...hmm

Anya Sat 20-Jun-15 16:55:45

Google her yourself.

I'm not going to 'discuss' with you on this any more Jen as I find your posts ridiculous.

durhamjen Sat 20-Jun-15 16:52:28

So what's wrong with Baroness Warsi, Anya?

durhamjen Sat 20-Jun-15 16:51:30

Many of the GN expats would not want the women's passports to be taken away, either, Anya.

"Britain’s debate on Europe is driven by hateful lies, national resentment and the scapegoating of Romanian and Bulgarian immigrants, the European parliament president has said."

I can see parallels. Many people from other countries feel unwanted in Britain today.

Anya Sat 20-Jun-15 16:48:54

Baroness Warsi ...what a laugh! grin

Ana Sat 20-Jun-15 16:47:16

Well, the Guardian would say that...

Anya Sat 20-Jun-15 16:45:00

Your reasoning escapes me (as usual) Jen - are you equating expats with Isis sympathisers? I don't think many of out GNetters will be happy with that 'logic'?

durhamjen Sat 20-Jun-15 16:43:03

www.theguardian.com/politics/2015/jun/19/warsi-cameron-wrong-to-blame-british-muslim-complicity-for-radicalisation

This is why a Muslim would not feel safe here.

Anya Sat 20-Jun-15 16:42:00

And this quote from the same post

'that must have been a very brave thing for them to do'

Really? hmm

Ana Sat 20-Jun-15 16:40:19

As they've presumably gone to Syria to support IS (why else would they go?) they probably weren't bothered about the 'safety' aspect - unfortunately for the children.

durhamjen Sat 20-Jun-15 16:39:00

Yes, Anya, you could have warned me it was the DM. Jingl obviously appreciated it, though.

There are a lot of expats who say this country is not for them. Should they also give up their passports when they go to live in a different country?

TerriBull Sat 20-Jun-15 16:38:59

I don't know about lots DJ, I think many of us do feel that Syrian refugees need some sort of safe haven. The refugee problem has been lumped together with the seismic pan global shift of poorer nationalities moving about the globe, many trying to seek a better life in Europe. Some of the sub Saharan Africans will be economic migrants and hence the dilly dallying as how best to deal with that in the long term. Much of the deliberation at the moment is how to distribute the 40,000 of so migrants in the here and now but in the long term the feasibility of emptying a huge number of people from a larger continent into a smaller one isn't really sustainable but many politicians aren't honest enough to say that. I'm digressing however, there is another thread on that.

I think the reason most of us don't sympathise with these women, as parents and grandparents surely keeping our children safe and not exposing them to horrors would override anything else.

Ana Sat 20-Jun-15 16:38:27

Yes, I've already read that sentence, durhamjen, and it doesn't make any sense. Why would they not be safe if they'd stayed at home?

durhamjen Sat 20-Jun-15 16:36:37

I do not know, Ana. Believe it or not, they have not told me.

"It might not be what you would do, but staying in this country would probably not provide them with any more safety than they have now."

Just to save you looking again.