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Mishap Mon 18-May-15 19:03:00

Since we are hijacking the prefect thread, I thought we should have one of our own.

I lived in Essex from about the age of 4 to 16, firstly in Tarpots and then in Hadleigh (1953 - 66 ish). Hadleigh was then a large village, but I understand it is now absorbed into a suburban sprawl. I went to the Sweyne School (there's posh!) under the headships of two perfectly potty people. I cannot say that I enjoyed it. I spent quite a bit of time in Southend where music lessons, our teenage social life and holiday jobs took place. I escaped to uni and subsequently a few work years in Birmingham, then - hooray! - the wonderful Welsh borders where we now live.

chloe1984 Mon 18-May-15 21:25:26

pompa no problem stayed a wallflower until Mr Chloe swept me off my feet at the Fiddlers one never to be forgotten night around 1969.

pompa Mon 18-May-15 21:19:32

Sorry Chloe I was courting Mrs P then, we met when she was 16. We used to go to the Tottenham Royal, Ilford Palais, Brentwood Meads and the Basidon Locarno along with various jazz clubs and small music venues.

chloe1984 Mon 18-May-15 21:02:28

pompa moonlight time was when the mirror ball went round and round and flooded the floor with starlight ( all a bit cheesy but I loved it so much) it was also the time that I wondered if anyone would EVER pick me to dance with before I had to run to catch the 25 bus home.

Pittcity Mon 18-May-15 20:56:11

There's a TOWIE tour starting at Brentwood station.

AshTree Mon 18-May-15 20:55:52

Mishap how amazing, we might have worked together! I worked there throughout the summer of 1966. And oh yes, the bottom pinching!
I remember on a couple of occasions being asked to help in the workshop filling cartons with ice-cream for sale in local shops. The machinery couldn't be stopped so we had to form a conveyer belt: me popping open the flat packed cartons and handing them one at a time to the Italian guy. He filled it from the machine and then passed it to someone else to do up the flaps and stack in the freezer. The rhythm couldn't be broken, so when I dropped one of the cartons on the floor, awash with filthy ice-cream, I naturally left it there and picked up another one quickly. Oh no! Can't waste them! Dirty one had to be picked up, wiped on the front of the Italian guy's once white coat, and filled with ice-cream. And they all smoked while doing this - cigarettes hanging from their lips because both hands were in constant use.
It did rather put me off ice-cream for quite a while sad

pompa Mon 18-May-15 20:50:09

"chloe1984" Ilford Palais - get your girl before all the lighs went out grin.

As I remember they called it moonlight time.

pompa Mon 18-May-15 20:47:57

Mrs. P loved Keddies (and Rossi's ice cream)

chloe1984 Mon 18-May-15 20:47:09

The Merry Fiddlers pub Dagenham on a Friday night , the Ilford Palais on Saturday nights and Southend on Sea bank holiday weekends another Essex girl here and proud of it.

pompa Mon 18-May-15 20:45:05

Grummpa, I lived in Cobbold Road, spent most of my time on Wanstead flats, that was where I got my love of aero modelling.

Mishap Mon 18-May-15 20:44:37

Yes - Keddies - that was it!

AshTree - I too worked at Rossis ice cream parlour and had my bottom pinched - do you have that privilege!

I also worked in a children's home near Southend sea front in the summer before I went to uni - it was a dreadful cruel place and left a lasting impression on me.

The Golden Egg - boy, does that bring back memories! - and the Kursal!

Sorry about the sexist thread title - I grovel before you. grin

pompa Mon 18-May-15 20:41:26

I certainly don't see the TOWIE look in Essex any more than any other part of the country, it is a minority, (the majority don't take the limelight)

Mind you I am pumping out ZZZZZ's when the TOWIE species comes out.
The last club I went to was the Legion.

rosesarered Mon 18-May-15 20:39:37

We could go on the dodgem cars at the Kursaal, then enjoy a pint of winkles and a pint.

grumppa Mon 18-May-15 20:36:42

Another Essex man and Leytonstone teenager here, pompa; not our fault they moved the boundaries in the sixties. Could the two of us cope with the white-heeled Essex girls?

pompa Mon 18-May-15 20:34:01

Thanks Rose, can I come back now ?

I can see you now, mini skirt, white high heel boots, comb tucked in the top of your boots, blonde hair back combed. Those were the days.

Pitcity, summer picnic on Frinton greensward.

rosesarered Mon 18-May-15 20:32:11

All the tanned nonsense and Essex girl look didn't exist when I lived there, so I wonder where it all came from?

rosesarered Mon 18-May-15 20:27:50

Pompa, if all the Essex girls ever met up ( doubtful, as we all live in different places now) you do know that we would all have to wear white high heeled shoes don't you?With tanned and waxed legs . you can be an honorary Essex girl even though you are a boy.

rosesarered Mon 18-May-15 20:24:30

Ah yes, Keddies, thanks, I had forgotten that.

AshTree Mon 18-May-15 20:21:53

rose the department store back in my day was called Keddies. Don't know what it is these days - House of Fraser, Debenhams?

Pittcity Mon 18-May-15 20:19:20

An Essex meet up would be great. Frinton or Southend in the Summer would be nice!

pompa Mon 18-May-15 20:17:27

Reported for being sexist

pompa Mon 18-May-15 20:15:10

I was just thinking the same thing - or rather I was thinking that this was a sexist thread - "Mishap" , shame on you angry

I shall go and stand outside the Kursal eyeing up the birds.

rosesarered Mon 18-May-15 20:13:08

hi all, I have found he clubhouse!I am from the frozen North, but moved to Walthamstow in the late 60's, then married and we lived in Ilford for a while, then to Rayleigh for a few years, where I worked in the library.Southend was the place to go if you wanted a nice meal out, there was a place called Oskars in Leigh-on-Sea, and we belonged to a badminton club there as well.What was the department store called, was it Dingles?In the centre of Southend.Went to quite a few shows at The Cliffs Pavilion too.Happy days!

AshTree Mon 18-May-15 20:10:04

Oops, my grins went a bit wonky grin

AshTree Mon 18-May-15 20:09:40

And this thread is entitled "Essex Girls". Is there something you want to tell us pompa? grin[grin[grin

pompa Mon 18-May-15 20:08:36

If I had a brain I might have read that as prefect and not perfect [consused]