The Idiot is getting married again

We had a problem a while ago with our youngest daughter's ex. It got so bad for a while that he turned up at her work got completely worked up, threatening her and other workers, broke some fixtures and fittings then blamed her for him ending up in the cells! To make matters worse his family (well the siblings at least) agreed with him. Thankfully his mother packed him off to relatives in another county so we don't have to see him any more.

Please don't tell me he proposed to her on Facebook!

Clearly a man person of little brain.........it's hideous he's using the children as pawns, utterly sickening.

Your language is nothing compared to the language that flies round our house when discussing our Idiot! .

My every sympathy Lona. Only a complete bastard would mess up a child's head with lies as our 'plonker' does on occasion.

sorry for the language but I get so angry at these men who should be putting their children's welfare first and foremost but sadly they are self-centred individuals who think only of themselves.

Sorry not to reply earlier, but I've been out all day.
Myy dd has called the police, given statements, shown them photos of damage etc. and they've said they will arrest him,and charge him with harassment !
However,he lives outside their patch and they just haven't been able to get him!
It's pathetic.

My GDS are living at both homes but are believing his lies and blaming their mum!

I'll be so glad when it all calms down.

Lona Does your daughter live in the same area as you? The PPU where you are used to be very good about Domestic Abuse support, ( before services were cut to the bone.) I have just pm ed you.

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kitty idiot is the word.

Spermie is still asking DD what it would take for her to have him back. Is it possible the idiot is trying to make your DD jealous?

Lona for you and your DD. My DD is in the process of moving hundreds of miles away to escape her ex and DD's new partners ex in-laws.

I should maybe point out that our Idiot only announced that he is getting married on FB - we are not sure he has asked the girl in question and it was just after DD said she was starting the divorce process!

Oh Lona, I started this thread as a bit of a laugh because that is just what the idiot is! But your daughter's situation is certainly not! Is there nothing else you/she can do? Can Women's Aid help? A solicitor? Knowing a little about your DD's situation, I can't believe that nothing can be done!

kitty your dd is well rid!
My dd's idiot won't leave her alone, she's tearing her hair out, the police have done nothing and my dgd has just started her GCSEs!

Stand at the back of the church/registry office and when they ask for objections shout that he's still married to your DD.

Or if you feel sorry for the new girl wait until the banns are read or the notice is up at the Registry Office and report him.

Just hope he will do it quickly Kitty Your daughter should warn his new woman what he is like. Those poor kids put through all this

He is providing us with lots of fun at the moment - bless him! And DD has seen the light and just wants to move on!

Right, so that will be him 'banged up' and out of the way once he is found guilty of bigamy.
"idiot" doesn't come close, does it?
Every sympathy to you and yours for having to deal with such a plonker.

How does he propose to do that then Kitty? Maybe he's become an old school Mormon? It sounds as if your DD is well rid!

Bigamist? Pity his new 'wife'!