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Birth partner to daughter

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Pittcity Wed 04-Mar-15 20:02:47

I think it should be the decision of the person giving birth.

tanith Wed 04-Mar-15 20:00:41

I was with both my daughters when they had their first child it was an experience I wouldn't of missed for the World.
Why are you appalled at the thought may I ask?

My oldest granddaughter is expecting my first GGC in July and is only too keen to have her Mum and her partner with her.. what on earth is wrong with that?

baubles Wed 04-Mar-15 19:58:51

Oh and giving birth wasn't the most painful time in my life.

baubles Wed 04-Mar-15 19:58:02

I see absolutely no reason why not if it's what they both want. I would have been my daughter's birth partner if for any reason her DH hadn't been able to be there.

apricot Wed 04-Mar-15 19:53:28

I heard Esther Rantzen say she was going to be this. Personally I'm appalled at the idea of anyone's mother being there during the most painful and undignified hours of her life.
I didn't even have my husband present at any of my births. My mother wouldn't have been much use as apparently her own babies came from the stork, sex and birth were never ever mentioned.
My daughters all had their partners there, as has been the norm for many years and I don't know any of their generation who choose to have her mum present.
What do grannies think of their daughters or granddaughters having their mums in at the birth?