No, jingle, I said that even IF I thought what she said stupid, I would not be offended. IF is the important word. Call that wrapping if you like but it is not equal to "what you said is stupid" however you wrap it up.
In addition, in discussion it is perfectly in order (the rules of debate) to say that you think an opinion is stupid or wrong or whatever. And that is not equal to saying the person is stupid.
I do not agree with the people who want to vote for Scottish independence. I disagree with their view on that issue. That doesn't mean I can't get along with them about other things or that I think them stupid in general.
The same applies on gransnet.