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HollyDaze Thu 26-Jun-14 15:04:49

How many of you can relate to the following as being representative of your childhood:

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According to today's regulators and bureaucrats, those of us who were kids in the 50s, 60s, 70s and early 80s, probably shouldn't have survived because:

Our baby cots were covered with brightly coloured lead-based paint with was promptly chewed and licked.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles or latches on doors or cabinets and it was fine to play with pans.

When we rode our bikes, we wore no helmets, just flip flops and fluorescent 'clackers' on our wheels.

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

Riding in the passenger seat was a treat.

We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle – tasted the same.

We ate dripping sandwiches, bread and butter pudding and drank fizzy pop with sugar in it but we were never overweight because we were always outside playing.

We shared one drink with four friends, from one bottle or can and no-one actually died from this.

We would spend hours building go-carts out of scraps and then went top speed down the hill, only to find we forgot the brakes.

After running into stinging nettles a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we got back before it got dark. No one was able to reach us all day and no-one minded.

We did not have Playstations or X-Boxes, no video games at all. No 99 channels on TV, no videotape movies, no surround sound, no mobile phones, no personal computers, no internet chat rooms. We had friends – we went outside and found them.

We played elastics and street rounders, and sometimes that ball really hurt.

We fell out of trees, got cut and broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits. They were accidents. We learnt not to do the same thing again.

We had fights, punched each other hard and got black and blue – we learned to get over it.

We walked to friend's homes.

We made up games with sticks and tennis balls and ate live stuff and although we were told it would happen, we did not have very many eyes out, nor did the live stuff live inside us forever.

We rode bikes in packs of 7 and wore our coats by only the hood.

Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected.

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was unheard of.
They actually sided with the law. Imagine that!

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem-solvers and inventors ever. The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility – and we learned how to deal with it all.

And you're one of them. Congratulations - you had the luck to grow up as real kids before lawyers and government regulated our lives, for our own good.

For those who aren't old enough, thought you might like to read about us.

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How many felt uncomfortable as they read it? Has today's conditioning worked on you?

sunseeker Thu 26-Jun-14 17:58:43

Playing marbles in the gutter. Building a bonfire from any spare wood we could find in the middle of a side road for 5th November, baking potatoes in it and having a box of fireworks which we set off ourselves

Watching Mum make toffee apples and being impatient for the toffee to cool enough to eat them.

Group of us going off for a walk across the fields and not getting back home until we got hungry and nobody worried, we knew not to talk to strangers and we all looked out for each other.

rosequartz Thu 26-Jun-14 17:58:41

Ours was just bright yellow. I probably lived in a deprived area, we didn't have a car either so couldn't sit in the back without a seatbelt.

Ana Thu 26-Jun-14 17:56:24

Sounds like what we used to call rainbow crystals, but it came in different colours (though I think sort of layered in the big jar in the shop). We used to dip our forefinger in it and lick it - yes, the flavours were very acidic!

rosequartz Thu 26-Jun-14 17:53:43

Sherbert is powder and comes in a tube withna liquorice dipper.

I think Kali is just sugar crystals with some very sour lemon flavouring, comes by the ounce (!) in a paper bag, you tip it into the palm of your hand and lick it from there. The colouring (oh dear, it gets worse) leaves your hand and tongue bright yellow.

ninathenana Thu 26-Jun-14 17:48:37

rosequartz my dad cut the toes off my sandals too !

I used to have to get the bus too and from school by myself at 7 as mum worked. I would call next-door when I got home and the neighbour would use her key to let me in.

Ana Thu 26-Jun-14 17:48:30

What's the difference between kali and sherbet, then? We never had kali.

We had sherbet fountains, and you could buy rainbow crystals from a big jar by the ounce.

KatyK Thu 26-Jun-14 17:43:57

Oh yes rose Kali - coloured and sore tongues! A couple of years ago an old fashioned sweet shop opened in Birmingham City Centre and DH and I bought a bag of kali and two liquorice sticks and sat on a bench eating it like we did as kids.

rosequartz Thu 26-Jun-14 17:38:16

Apparently worn by the ancient Egyptians C4,000 BC

Before Clark's sandals.

Elegran Thu 26-Jun-14 17:33:06

We could work out the age of the writer of this piece by carbon dating the flip flop reference.

rosequartz Thu 26-Jun-14 17:25:29

Kali (not sherbert - ugh) licked from the palm of your grubby hand that had just held the pennies with which you paid for it!

Clark's t bar red sandals and short white socks. The toes got cut out of the sandals by my DF with his stanley knife to make them last until the end of the summer holiday.

No flip flops (still can't wear them) - known as 'thongs' in Australia!

Playing conkers, without helmet or goggles. Sometimes your knuckles were really painful afterwards.

Long wool socks in the winter with garters that cut into your leg just below the knee.

Going off to swim in the river, with friends but without parents.

Catching the bus to school from the age of 7 and walking miles home.

HollyDaze Thu 26-Jun-14 17:04:07

ninathenana - I remember camping in the back garden! My brother would often camp with his friends in our garden but he would never let me sleep in the tent with him and his friends. I moaned and moaned until my mother agreed to camp out overnight with me in the tent. When we woke up in the morning, mum said 'shall we have a picnic breakfast in the tent' - 'ooh yes' and she left the tent to go and make it. Then I heard a man's voice (our neighbour) say to her 'had an argument with the old man have you' grin

HollyDaze Thu 26-Jun-14 17:00:56

I have chuckled at some of the responses on here grin

It's strange how we can think 'no, I didn't do that' but a memory jog came along:

When I was about 6 or 7, my brother (6 years older than me) had put my Dad's crash helmet on and told me to hit him over the head with the broom. I wouldn't (he was always hitting me) because I knew what would happen. He assured me it wouldn't hurt him because of the crash helmet - so I swung the broom back and hit him on the head, it didn't hurt him! He grinned and said 'hit me again' so I did. 'And again' he said - so I did. He took the helmet off but I had already thought I was going to have the opportunity to hit him again - so I did. Thankfully, I got to the bathroom first and locked the door grin

numberplease Thu 26-Jun-14 16:52:41

We very rarely had sweets. My mother would put cocoa powder mixed with sugar into a newspaper cone, that was our kali (sp) or a stick of rhubarb and a newspaper cone of sugar to dip it in. Sometimes half a pomegranate and a pin!

rockgran Thu 26-Jun-14 16:48:39

For my holidays I had some white sunny san sandals (a bit like early jelly shoes) which I promptly got covered in melted road tar on a hot day. Mum was cross! (c 1958).

sherish Thu 26-Jun-14 16:28:54

I didn't know what a flipflop was. I was born in 1946. I don't know when I first saw a flipflop. I have never been able to get a comfy pair. The hurt in between my toes. I did always long for pretty dainty shoes instead of serviceable black school shoes and a navy gaberdine mac.

janerowena Thu 26-Jun-14 16:02:13

I wonder who wore the flipflops? My mother said they were bad for your feet. I wasn't even allowed out of the house without socks on! Plimsolls in public were forbidden too.

Yes, we all knew about lead, some toys sent from abroad were taken away at Christmas because the paint may have contained lead. We had gas lighting too until I was six, my mother said she preferred it, it was a much gentler light.

We always had Clark's shoes after my mother bought a pair of smart new sandals for me from someone else. On the first day I jumped off a low wall and they fell apart, when my mother tried to return them they said I must have done it on purpose! After that we were stuck forever with sensible Clark's.

I don't remember going home for lunch during the holidays. I do remember staying out until it was almost dark, so that my parents gave in and bought me a watch so that I wouldn't keep missing meals. During the winter months I would have to walk in the dark through a rougher part of town to go to my piano lessons, at 6pm to 7pm, half an hour either way in all weathers. I was seven. No-one ever even thought to suggest that they should accompany me.

KatyK Thu 26-Jun-14 15:43:22

Yes I punched the odd brother after they had lined my dolls up in the garden and used them to practice their cricket bowling skills. sad

Aka Thu 26-Jun-14 15:40:02

Those were the days! grin

merlotgran Thu 26-Jun-14 15:39:43

I used to punch my brother but usually after he'd given me a Chinese Burn hmm

ninathenana Thu 26-Jun-14 15:39:12

I've never punched anyone either !
I have no idea what my cot was like. I never wore flip flops, I wore jellies and kilty sandals for school.
Definitely disappeared until dark. With my peanut butter sarnies and a bottle of squash which yes was shared by all.
One thing not mentioned. I was allowed several times to camp over night in our garden with my friend from the age of about 10 shock shock Can you imagine that happening now.

KatyK Thu 26-Jun-14 15:36:01

Yes pop bottles back to the shop for 1d! We had a tin bath in front of the fire. There were 6 kids and we took it in turns, in the same water, cleanest looking one in first! When our shoes had holes in them, my mother used to put the shoe on a piece of a cornflake box and cut round it to make an insole for the shoe. You can imagine how long that lasted in the rain.

Aka Thu 26-Jun-14 15:34:10

Gas lighting.

glammanana Thu 26-Jun-14 15:33:43

Dad didn't have a car when we where small but we all did fit into his side-car on his motor bike,my twin brother and I pushed to the back my two sisters positioned on our knees and instructed not to move until we arrived at grandma's house,if it was raining the rain leaked down the back of my neck as I was always next to where the plastic hood was fitted on.hmmNo flip flops for us either it was Norvic Kiltie (I think) white sandals from March -Sept for us girls them sturdy school shoes from then until Easter again.

Aka Thu 26-Jun-14 15:32:27

I was 6 and she was two days older. That's what the argument was about.
Most of Holly's post is how I remember childhood in the early 50s except like Ana I didn't wear flip flops either. Sandals with a T-bar and white socks that didn't stay clean for very long. Knees were always skinned.

We used to collect pop bottles and take them to the shop for 1d I think it was. You ate what was put in front of you or you went hungry till the next meal. If you were naughty you were spanked - we never heard of a naughty step.

We had has lighting, no central heating and in winter the ice was so thick on the inside of the bedroom window you couldn't scratch it off. I once scorched my fringe reading in bed but candle light!

KatyK Thu 26-Jun-14 15:30:51

give them to us not to use !