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HollyDaze Thu 26-Jun-14 15:04:49

How many of you can relate to the following as being representative of your childhood:

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According to today's regulators and bureaucrats, those of us who were kids in the 50s, 60s, 70s and early 80s, probably shouldn't have survived because:

Our baby cots were covered with brightly coloured lead-based paint with was promptly chewed and licked.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles or latches on doors or cabinets and it was fine to play with pans.

When we rode our bikes, we wore no helmets, just flip flops and fluorescent 'clackers' on our wheels.

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

Riding in the passenger seat was a treat.

We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle – tasted the same.

We ate dripping sandwiches, bread and butter pudding and drank fizzy pop with sugar in it but we were never overweight because we were always outside playing.

We shared one drink with four friends, from one bottle or can and no-one actually died from this.

We would spend hours building go-carts out of scraps and then went top speed down the hill, only to find we forgot the brakes.

After running into stinging nettles a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we got back before it got dark. No one was able to reach us all day and no-one minded.

We did not have Playstations or X-Boxes, no video games at all. No 99 channels on TV, no videotape movies, no surround sound, no mobile phones, no personal computers, no internet chat rooms. We had friends – we went outside and found them.

We played elastics and street rounders, and sometimes that ball really hurt.

We fell out of trees, got cut and broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits. They were accidents. We learnt not to do the same thing again.

We had fights, punched each other hard and got black and blue – we learned to get over it.

We walked to friend's homes.

We made up games with sticks and tennis balls and ate live stuff and although we were told it would happen, we did not have very many eyes out, nor did the live stuff live inside us forever.

We rode bikes in packs of 7 and wore our coats by only the hood.

Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected.

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was unheard of.
They actually sided with the law. Imagine that!

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem-solvers and inventors ever. The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility – and we learned how to deal with it all.

And you're one of them. Congratulations - you had the luck to grow up as real kids before lawyers and government regulated our lives, for our own good.

For those who aren't old enough, thought you might like to read about us.

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How many felt uncomfortable as they read it? Has today's conditioning worked on you?

HollyDaze Fri 27-Jun-14 12:56:49

Long wool socks in the winter with garters that cut into your leg just below the knee.

I'd forgotten those rosequartz! Mine had a piece of knicker elastic, tied with a knot, and when you took them off, there was always a red circle below each knee lol

rosequartz Fri 27-Jun-14 09:58:46

If you are in the Midlands, the Museum of Childhood at Sudbury Hall is good, too. (National Trust)

Gobstoppers! No wonder my teeth are like they are.

'Riding in the front passenger seat' - how posh was the person who wrote those memories? We went everywhere by bus, train or coach, or Shanks' s pony.

durhamjen Thu 26-Jun-14 23:26:10

Sorry about the kali. I missed out a page.
If you want to see all the toys we used to play with, go to Beamish. They have hoops in the school playground.
The next big thing they are going to do is build a 50s street. That should bring back memories for all of us.

durhamjen Thu 26-Jun-14 23:20:36

Kali came loose in a paper bag.
When I was seven or eight I was put on a train to go from Hull to Crewe.
I was in the guard van with the guard. I mentioned that to my granddaughter yesterday, and she could not believe it.
"What, all by yourself? Not with your family?"

Nelliemoser Thu 26-Jun-14 23:04:38

Numberplease I remember being given a stick of rhubarb with a sugar cone. With the combination of the acid of the rhubarb and the sugar it's a wonder I have any teeth left at all.

boheminan Thu 26-Jun-14 22:51:38

I couldn't get the hang of jacks, we played 'dabs' or fivestones in London 50's. I have a photo of me wearing flip-flops in about 1960…they were red rubber and yes, gave painful blisters between my toes

Penstemmon Thu 26-Jun-14 22:49:14

I wore Flip Flops as a child & I was born in '51. Made by Bata shoes. probably because I lived in E Africa.

I think there were many good things about 'risk' taking when we were kids and we do not allow enough now..parents hover over kids far more!

I would like to know the statistics of serious injury/death in kids playgrounds with those high slides, witches hat roundabouts, wooden seat swings and un-sprung seesaws all on hard tarmac. Did kids learn more about safety or did high numbers suffer injury?? I don't know.

Also death and permanent damage from polio, scarlet fever, measles etc etc! It was not all rosy!

Ana Thu 26-Jun-14 22:25:33

Not all of us are on facebook, thank goodness! hmm

Anyway, it bears repeating...

Soutra Thu 26-Jun-14 22:04:45

Another facebook " chestnut" I see. Ah well .

Ana Thu 26-Jun-14 21:50:25

Oh, I think I'll definitely have to get some for my GDs...thanks, when!

whenim64 Thu 26-Jun-14 21:47:58

They still sell them, Ana. I have a set in the children's toy drawer.

www.smartstart-toys.co.uk/puzzling-fun/indoor-games/metal-jacks.html

Ana Thu 26-Jun-14 21:38:50

Jacks - remember those? I got very good at the game the one summer the craze lasted - school playgrounds are pretty hard on the knees and knuckles though!

numberplease Thu 26-Jun-14 21:33:07

Yes Ariadne, there was a whip and top season, a skipping season, and a marbles season. I used to take the leather thong off new whips and replace them with string, it worked better!

whenim64 Thu 26-Jun-14 21:18:47

Fantastic, bohemian. I remember my dad taking us all for a picnic in Lyme Park (edge of Peak District) when I was 8. So there were 4 children in the sidecar, 8, 7, 4 and 18 months, plus collie dog, mum on pillion in summery frock and dad driving! grin

boheminan Thu 26-Jun-14 20:47:28

We didn't have a car but my dad rode a big Norton motorbike (no crash helmet). He made a 'sidecar' for my brother and I to sit in from our old pram - a big black old deep bellied thing. He took the hood off, hammered in a plank for a seat, and somehow attached it to the side of the bike, my brother used to hunch up behind me. We travelled miles, with mum riding pillion (in her flowery cotton dress and white sandals). Apart from the excruciating back ache, we had lovely days out - and all survived to tell the tale!

Gagagran Thu 26-Jun-14 20:25:42

I was born in 1943 and we had whips and tops and chalked coloured patterns on them It was a seasonal thing and alternated with hopscotch with the grid being chalked onto the pavement and a bit of shiny tile used as the puck.

We also did skipping with lots of rhymes and bouncing balls against walls in rhymes too. There were both one and two ball games.

One of my favourites was "Releivio" which was a chasing game. When you were caught you were in prison unless someone not "it" could run and touch you and shout "Releivio".

My Mum was keen on "common" too and she classed red shoes and sandals as common so I was never allowed them. They were boring brown (and how I yearned for red ones) but I did love going to the shoe shop and putting my feet in the x-ray machine so I could see all the bones in my feet. I think they realised there was a danger from the radiation eventually and stopped them being used.

whenim64 Thu 26-Jun-14 20:01:33

Ariadne yes! my mum had a list in her head of what was 'common' such as eating in the street, milk bottle on the table and the worst offence of all - having a fringe! Where she drummed that one up from, I don't know. Needless to say, I do have a fringe.......grin

annodomini Thu 26-Jun-14 19:55:28

I didn't know flip-flops existed until I went to work in Africa in 1965, after which I wore them much of the time. Clark's sandals were bought during the Easter holidays and eventually we were allowed to wear them without socks and got white T-bars on our feet! We played out on the beach and on the street, tennis without a net and French cricket. We could go anywhere on our bikes. 4 pennorth of chips on the way back from Guides. Pressed button B in the phone box to see if any money came out - very occasionally it did! Every few years yo-yos came into fashion. If we didn't have one, we could raid our mums' button boxes for big buttons to make our own. They worked.

MiniMouse Thu 26-Jun-14 19:35:55

Ariadne you've just reminded me that at my school we were allowed to wear short white socks in the summer, but not knee length ones because girls 'who frequented coffee bars' wore them!!! grin

Ariadne Thu 26-Jun-14 19:30:45

I had whips and tops - I was born in 1946. There are two tiles of tops, but the most difficult one was a mushroom shape and I never mastered it. My mother thought it was all a bit common. (If you have read anything I have said about my mother, you will know that "common" was her watchword.) and I could never make those pretty patterns on my tops.

BTW, weren't whips and tops seasonal? Can'T remember when the came out each year, though.

Oh yes, Clarks' sandals in the summer, and brown bar shoes in the winter. But not knee sacks because they were.....???

Ana Thu 26-Jun-14 19:22:21

Whips and tops??? I thought those went out in the early 1900s! shock

(Seriously...I never heard of anyone having those in my childhood, and I'm not that much younger than you, when)

whenim64 Thu 26-Jun-14 19:18:46

My friend had a pair of skates with ball bearings in the wheels. She would let me wear the right one as she could manage on her left. Then we started watching the tap dancing lessons in a room at our church hall and acquired a pair of tap shoes. I wore the right tap shoe, her the left. To this day, I can perform tap movements with only my right foot! grin

We had whips and tops and would decorate the tops with coloured chalks. We played marbles into a well, scraped in the ground, hopscotch with shoe polish tins, stilts with National Dried milk tins and string and skipping with mum's old washing line.

For Whit Week, we had new white sandals which my mum would whiten and leave on top of the dustbin lid in the sunshine to dry, then it was off out in my dad's bike and sidecar to visit grandmother, four children squeezed into the sidecar and mum on the pillion. For a week in Blackpool, suitcases went in the middle!

sparkygran Thu 26-Jun-14 18:45:44

What a joy to read all about my childhood Norvic Kiltie Glamma rings a bell and no flip flops. There was a farm next to my house and I was out from dawn till dusk and we played in the fields, the hay loft up rickity ladders and as others have said if you fell out of a tree you just picked yourself up and carried on - oh happy days.

Also my Daddy used to cut the toes out of my sandels to make them last all summer and I was never allowed to go into my summer clothes until "May was out" which in our house meant June

KatyK Thu 26-Jun-14 18:02:05

All these memories! We used to build bonfires too and make a Guy and take him out in an old pushchair to get pennies. Oooo and toffee apples. smile

KatyK Thu 26-Jun-14 17:59:33

An enterprising sweet shop owner near us when we were kids used to add water to kali and sell it as a drink for a penny. It was awful but we still used to buy it after the Saturday morning matinee at the pictures!