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HollyDaze Thu 26-Jun-14 15:04:49

How many of you can relate to the following as being representative of your childhood:

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According to today's regulators and bureaucrats, those of us who were kids in the 50s, 60s, 70s and early 80s, probably shouldn't have survived because:

Our baby cots were covered with brightly coloured lead-based paint with was promptly chewed and licked.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles or latches on doors or cabinets and it was fine to play with pans.

When we rode our bikes, we wore no helmets, just flip flops and fluorescent 'clackers' on our wheels.

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

Riding in the passenger seat was a treat.

We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle – tasted the same.

We ate dripping sandwiches, bread and butter pudding and drank fizzy pop with sugar in it but we were never overweight because we were always outside playing.

We shared one drink with four friends, from one bottle or can and no-one actually died from this.

We would spend hours building go-carts out of scraps and then went top speed down the hill, only to find we forgot the brakes.

After running into stinging nettles a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we got back before it got dark. No one was able to reach us all day and no-one minded.

We did not have Playstations or X-Boxes, no video games at all. No 99 channels on TV, no videotape movies, no surround sound, no mobile phones, no personal computers, no internet chat rooms. We had friends – we went outside and found them.

We played elastics and street rounders, and sometimes that ball really hurt.

We fell out of trees, got cut and broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits. They were accidents. We learnt not to do the same thing again.

We had fights, punched each other hard and got black and blue – we learned to get over it.

We walked to friend's homes.

We made up games with sticks and tennis balls and ate live stuff and although we were told it would happen, we did not have very many eyes out, nor did the live stuff live inside us forever.

We rode bikes in packs of 7 and wore our coats by only the hood.

Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected.

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was unheard of.
They actually sided with the law. Imagine that!

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem-solvers and inventors ever. The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility – and we learned how to deal with it all.

And you're one of them. Congratulations - you had the luck to grow up as real kids before lawyers and government regulated our lives, for our own good.

For those who aren't old enough, thought you might like to read about us.

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How many felt uncomfortable as they read it? Has today's conditioning worked on you?

annodomini Sat 28-Jun-14 09:38:41

My artistic granny used to frame her own drawings using passe partout. I wish I still had some of those, but the ones that survived have all been reframed.

HollyDaze Sat 28-Jun-14 09:15:17

Not sure what you mean Nelliemoser - I've only just read it so it was posted after I had signed off yesterday which is why I've commented on it today - unless I'm misunderstanding your last post?

Nelliemoser Sat 28-Jun-14 09:04:37

Hollydaze That information about passe partout is further down this thread?? It was aired yesterday. confused

HollyDaze Sat 28-Jun-14 08:30:08

I've never heard of that game susiemac (with the bouncy ball and a stocking) let alone played it - if I can find the scissors and an old pair of tights, the dog's could be in danger of losing one of their bouncy balls grin

HollyDaze Sat 28-Jun-14 08:27:26

Mum's wooden clothes horse and an old sheet

I'd forgotten that too susiemac - my friends and I would make 'tent' in the house using the wooden clotheshorse and tablecloth/sheet/blanket - whatever we could get our hands on - and sit with a torch if it was too dark to see each other grin Ah, simple pleasures but so much fun.

HollyDaze Sat 28-Jun-14 08:23:54

I have looked up the definition and it is "A picture or photograph mounted between a piece of glass and a sheet of card (or two pieces of glass) stuck together at the edges with adhesive tape."

That sounds really nice Elegran. My youngest GD is a keen photographer (and takes some very unusual shots that are very, very good and lovely to look at). I shall tell her about this (as she has entered some of them into competitions) - she's very creative and would enjoy making her own frames too. Many thanks for mentioning it smile

HollyDaze Sat 28-Jun-14 08:21:29

Around the World in 80 days?

I knew that passe partout sounded familiar rosequartz - now I know why grin (just have to figure out the papier mache link that I made confused )

Nelliemoser Sat 28-Jun-14 00:02:45

One of my delights between the age of four and seven was our road in Northamptonshire. It was a building site, empty plots all the way down the road from our house. Climbing on the scaffolding, making dens out of the stacks of bricks. Pushing over newly built walls !!!!

The man who drove the "digger" Donald used to take my sister and I to the tip in his lorry.
Dear God! when I think about it now. He was just a lovely man we never had any problems

Nelliemoser Fri 27-Jun-14 23:50:43

Yes! Rose petal perfume I made that as well. Do all kids try.

numberplease Fri 27-Jun-14 23:19:45

Oooh yes Susiemac, "perfume " made from rose petals in a jam jar of water, never could understand why it smelt so bad, kept on making it in the hope that it would get better.
My step-father was a coal miner, so we got cheap coal, dropped off at the gate, so we kids had the job of shovelling it into buckets and putting into the coalplace, we had to remove the pieces of shale, they went under the hedge near the gat, to be used as chalk for Hopscotch, then for sliding along the pitch in the game. Anybody remember the coal miners coming home from work with their black faces?

Elegran Fri 27-Jun-14 22:24:55

Yes, Jules Verne, Round the World in Eighty Days. With your manservant to do all the work, naturally.

susiemac Fri 27-Jun-14 22:15:41

Yes I remember Cremola foam-can still hear the lovely satisfying 'thick' sound of it being stirred up vigorously in the glass. To me it conjures up endless summer days of the late 50s/early 60s and playing tents in the garden with Mum's wooden clothes horse and an old sheet.
Other memories are:-

Playing horse riding with a 'horse' made one of Dad's socks, stuffed and attached with string to a broom stick

Finding endless uses outside for the old tin bath, long after we'd moved to a house with a bathroom. I remember keeping newts as 'pets' in it one summer. Other times it made a lovely big beds for dolls

Trying to make perfume with rose petals-so disappointing as it smelt vile!

Playing Fivestones-we called them 'snobs- those lovely pastel coloured chalky cubes that you used like jacks-catching them on the back of your hand

Chalking out London, York and Paris on the pavement-a game similar to hopscotch. For this I adored our smooth paving stones to write on and big lumps of soft chalk-luxury!!!!

Best game of all-putting a tennis ball in one of mum's old stockings-wrapping it several times round your hand and flicking your wrist, making the ball bounce on the ground from side to side or standing legs apart against the wall and making it hit the wall above your head and then between your legs-as fast as you could. Who remembers that game?? Such satisfying cheap fun. Ooh I want to do it again NOW!!!

Ariadne Fri 27-Jun-14 21:47:38

Elegran was it it in Jules Verne?

rockgran Fri 27-Jun-14 20:15:10

Yes to Cremola Foam - my Auntie in Scotland always gave it to us in the holidays.
Yes to Passe partout - for framing photos.
Yes to elastic tied round the top of socks.
What a great thread!

rosesarered Fri 27-Jun-14 16:24:29

whip'n'tops was seasonal, I think it was about Easter time, they would suddenly appear in the shops.I was a grand master of the art!
Kali [yes, rainbow crystals] was great stuff, so sour.I don't think I ever saw flipflops until the 70's but they were obviously there somewhere,but not in the frozen North where you needed your wellies until April. grin
In 1956 one of the neighbours in our street bought a car [ a black Humber]probably years old, but boy was that man proud of it, washing it in all weathers.Every year a long triangular narrow sticker appeared on the side and back windows.... Scarborough, Blackpool, Skegness and so on ,and even the exotic Ilfracombe [we didn't know where that was.]So not only was he able to make a statement about owning a car, now he could make a statement about all the holidays they could afford.Us children were warned off by him if we ventured too near, no sticky fingers must be laid on this marvellous vehicle.My 9 year old DGS can hardly believe me when I tell him that we had no tv, computer, tablets mobile phones [any phone at all] no car, no foreign holidays [or any holidays much] never had spaghetti or any pasta, pizza, yohurt etc.How did we live?

sparkygran Fri 27-Jun-14 15:47:12

Ah Bohemian jacks how could I have forgotten jacks I was a champion jacks player every day at school at break/lunch times great fun

rosequartz Fri 27-Jun-14 14:54:12

Around the World in 80 days?

Elegran Fri 27-Jun-14 14:15:59

I have looked up the definition and it is "A picture or photograph mounted between a piece of glass and a sheet of card (or two pieces of glass) stuck together at the edges with adhesive tape."

or "Adhesive tape or paper used in making a passepartout frame: "a looking glass of passepartout and blackened mercury" "

A predecessor of gaffer tape, I think.

Nelliemoser Fri 27-Jun-14 13:57:28

That sounds like gaffer tape to me.

Elegran Fri 27-Jun-14 13:57:12

I am trying to remember which famous book has a French servant in it called Passe Partout!

Elegran Fri 27-Jun-14 13:55:44

We always had the black - goes with everything.

Elegran Fri 27-Jun-14 13:55:11

Typos - for not to, and French has an E!

Galen Fri 27-Jun-14 13:55:06

And blue

Galen Fri 27-Jun-14 13:54:56

And red

Galen Fri 27-Jun-14 13:54:46

You could get it in green and black as well