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janerowena Wed 04-Jun-14 14:29:02

I think you saw what you expected to see - the mother.

But maybe they were both so sleep-deprived that they can't remember!

HollyDaze Wed 04-Jun-14 14:23:36

How intriguing! I am another that will be watching this space smile

yogagran Wed 04-Jun-14 13:47:36

Me too bags!

MiniMouse Wed 04-Jun-14 13:31:14

thatb Most of us I should think wink I hate anything unsolvable! I must drive my OH nuts always trying to find the answer to something - these days it's mainly "now where did I put? . . ." hmm!

thatbags Wed 04-Jun-14 13:17:55

I wonder how many of us will click "Watch This Thread"?

Iam64 Wed 04-Jun-14 13:13:37

Knitting, dead heading the roses, anything Soutra, but the great Gransnet Mystery of the Year does need another instalment

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 04-Jun-14 09:43:34

I agree with when. You have got to do some more sleuthing!

This could develop into Gransnet Mystery of the Year.

Looking forward to next instalment. smile

Soutra Wed 04-Jun-14 09:38:35

They couldn't both have gone as they also have a 3 year old and I thought I saw "her" clearly as she turned out of her drive (which is screened by our hedge) on to the pavement which isn't! She (?) was sort of bending forward over the pram pushing it the way she does when she walks the older boy to pre-school and in response to the other question her husband is one of those young men with actually very little hair. I still think I was right so maybe they were out twice!
Oh if anybody finds any marbles, please return them to megrin

whenim64 Wed 04-Jun-14 09:10:47

Reconstructive memory is notorious for filling in gaps with what you expect to see. Could he have had a scarf or blanket slung across his shoulders that might have passed for long hair? I think more sleuthing is required. Get your bag of knitting out and go round on some pretext. Report back at 12.00 hours grin

Lona Wed 04-Jun-14 08:14:02

At that time of night, my husband wouldn't have let me go out with the baby, either he would have gone or both of us together.
Are you certain that the striding down the drive wasn't him, and you just assumed it was 'mum'?

I'm only going off my dreadful observational skills and the fact that I frequently see the wrong thing! smile

Iam64 Wed 04-Jun-14 07:47:56

Soutra, this sounds like the beginning of a Miss Marple story. No doubt you'll be out dead heading the flowers in your garden today, so we can have the next chapter grin

Flowerofthewest Wed 04-Jun-14 00:50:07

Has he got long blonde hair also?

Soutra Tue 03-Jun-14 23:40:22

I think maybe your second suggestion might be it Harrigran. Not the wig though!! I even recognised the way she walks pushing the pram.confused

harrigran Tue 03-Jun-14 23:28:31

Perhaps neighbour wears a wig and husband donned it to make baby think it was mum or maybe there were several sorties last night and she was referring to a different one than the one you saw.
I feel for them. Someone told me that they resorted to putting the baby in the car and going for a drive. Made a rod for their own backs because for the next few years it was the only way he would go to sleep.

annodomini Tue 03-Jun-14 23:18:55

Have any of your neighbours got CCTV? I understand these cameras are becoming quite common!

merlotgran Tue 03-Jun-14 23:18:30

Sounds like the beginning of a Whodunnit, Soutra

Columbo would be scratching his head as well.

Soutra Tue 03-Jun-14 23:07:14

Last night about 10.30 I was shutting the curtains in our room when I heard "serious" baby crying, a door slammed and saw our lovely neighbour let's call her Rachel striding down her drive with 6 month old son in his pram bawling fit to burst. Aha I thought she can't get him off to sleep, once round the village should do the trick! Now Rachel has long blonde hair and our road is well lit so when I saw her todwy looking frazzled I enquired sympathetically how many circuits it had taken to get him off.confused She assured me that it had been her husband Tom who had taken the baby out and he had got even louder before eventually falling asleep. I am just puzzled. I am sure of what I saw - but why say otherwise? Obviously I left it at that but wonder if I would be any use whatsoever as a witness should the occasion arise!confused