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Getting girls into sports where you can be pretty?

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JessM Fri 21-Feb-14 12:45:16

Defies belief this. The equalities minister no less. Know any good re-education camps anyone?
www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-politics/10652074/Get-more-women-into-sport-through-cheerleading-its-feminine-says-sports-minister-Helen-Grant.html

FarNorth Sun 23-Mar-14 09:05:20

it's news to me, Pogs & Mamie, that cheerleading doesn't actually involve cheering on a bunch of guys ( or even pretending to do that).
that being the case, it should definitley be renamed, in the interests of encouraging more girls into sport by making it sound like something they might want to do.

Mamie Fri 21-Mar-14 17:52:41

Not remotely offended Hollydaze. Just pointing out that from my experience of actually watching my GDs' Cheerleading class that there isn't a skimpy costume or a pom-pom in sight. Perhaps the Cheerleading classes that you have watched are different?

HollyDaze Fri 21-Mar-14 14:49:43

Aka - yes, my school did offer more sport (in Birmingham) but the Isle of Man offers much the same as I experienced. I didn't realise there was not as much on offer.

Mamie - both of my granddaughters did pom-pom dancing and baton twirling so I have nothing against pom-poms per se; I just don't see the point of cheerleading - I'm not trying to be offensive and my comments aren't intended to offensive, I'm just giving my opinion on cheerleading.

Mamie Thu 20-Mar-14 15:38:10

My GDs are at primary school. They do hockey, netball, football, athletics, cross-country and swimming, plus a few other sports.
Out of school one does ballet and the other gymnastics. They both do cheerleading which I will repeat for the third time, is about gymnastics, tumbling and team work and has nothing to do with pom-poms, skimpy costumes and cheering on boys, of which there are none.

Aka Thu 20-Mar-14 15:26:42

You must have had a better curriculum then Holly
At primary school we it had netball, tennis and dance. Boys had football and cricket. There was the odd game of rounders and when the Annual Town Team Competitions, there was a quick flurry to find a couple of sprinters, long jumper and high jumper.
I was always chosen for the high jump but only got to practice about twice before the competition.

HollyDaze Thu 20-Mar-14 14:01:50

What sports are offered at school nowadays? I can only speak for what is offered on the Island where I live and the activities on offer are very good and mirror my own school experience. Are there after school clubs as well?

Aka Thu 20-Mar-14 07:38:39

It's not all about winning. It's about staying fit and healthy. Not everyone is competitive and isn't it better if girls/women can find an activity that they enjoy. I agree that the 'just cheering the boys on' is not to be applauded, but as POGS pointed out that is not what these after-school activities are about.

There needs to be more variety offered in sport at primary level, for both sexes, and more specialists bought in to offer coaching.

JessM Thu 20-Mar-14 07:18:24

grin grin grin

HollyDaze Wed 19-Mar-14 22:55:48

I am a bit upset that there is a perceived attitude that cheerleading is fluffy and to titillate the male sex.

POGS - no need to be upset, it's just opinions and we all view things differently. If boys wore skimpy outfits, waved pom poms around and did athletic jumps and dance to entertain whilst the girls got down to winning the game, I might change my mind wink

Mamie Wed 19-Mar-14 17:39:09

Yup I agree re Cheerleading. No cheering, no chaps, no ra-ra; just acrobatics, gymnastics and dance. Unlike POGS I am a feminist and though my initial reaction was negative based on all the American stuff, once I saw it I realised it was fine. My GDs do lots of dance and gymnastics, but cheerleading has a very strong element of trust and teamwork which makes it a bit different. Outfits are no different from gymnastics (although inevitably not the same colours and involving more expense for DD).

Aka Wed 19-Mar-14 16:53:55

My DiL is training as a TA. Because she was a dancer previously, she was coerced into asked if she could help with an after school Cheerleading Club.

She is uber fit, swims 50 lengths front crawl for fun, is taking part in the Moonwalk (26 miles) soon. She found this class quite a challenge good work out!

Galen Wed 19-Mar-14 16:42:36

Or Artemis if you prefer.

Galen Wed 19-Mar-14 16:42:09

Diana was a huntress and archer.

Galen Wed 19-Mar-14 16:40:58

I'm sure Bags would agree that archery can be feminine as well ( although if you look at my photo you'd think I was an old geyser) little did you know I was hunterF in disguise!
Remember people to make sure you put your £15000 into yourISA!

POGS Wed 19-Mar-14 16:08:39

Ana

You've got it!. smile

Ana Wed 19-Mar-14 16:07:44

(Hmm - think that should be 'do'!)

Ana Wed 19-Mar-14 16:04:19

I agree, POGS. Unless they're training specifically to 'cheerlead' a particular team for example, why on earth call it that? Team Acrobatics sounds much more fun - like the sort of stuff Diversity does.

POGS Wed 19-Mar-14 15:55:12

I am a bit upset that there is a perceived attitude that cheerleading is fluffy and to titillate the male sex.

My grandchild is 7 nearly 8 years old for goodness sake.sad

As for doing gymnastics, she did try a gymnastic class but they pushed her too hard and it was hurting her. Cheerleading is more social as it is a group activity for 4 to 15 year olds in her particular group, they obviously learn to work as a team and she prefers that. I don't see it as anything other than being similar to a circus acrobatic act!

I am not silly enough to accept that cheerleading by nubile young wenches at sports venues 'could' be seen that way but it is a bit narrow minded to club all cheerleading groups into the one basket.

Perhaps the term 'Cheerleading' is the problem and it could be called Team Acrobatics, that might stop the stereotyping of what is a good source of exercise for youngsters.

HollyDaze Wed 19-Mar-14 12:32:46

If women's sport were more highly valued, then perhaps girls would be more enthusiastic about taking it up.

I think that sums up why a lot of women don't go in for sport. Take the ladies England football team - they seriously outplayed the male England football team and yet little coverage of those games and hardly a mention in the press.

Both of my GDs play sport (football, hockey, netball, swimming) for the Island and I don't think it has ever entered their heads if they look attractive or not and I'm not sure why it should confused

I agree with those who are not fans of cheerleading and their reasons for it. I can appreciate that it takes a fair bit of skill and gymnastic abililty - so why not just do gymnastics instead? It does smack too much of fluffly little beauties jumping around to encourage their men to success; we have moved on from that.

thatbags Wed 19-Mar-14 08:43:00

Yes!

JessM Wed 19-Mar-14 07:39:31

No. My particular feminist heroine of the games was. www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2187395/Joanna-Rowsell-suffers-alopecia-refused-wear-wig-accept-gold-medal.html

absent Tue 18-Mar-14 18:47:43

Does anyone remember who it was who just before the London Olympics described Jessica Ennis as fat? Says something about attitudes towards women and sport.

FarNorth Tue 18-Mar-14 14:20:12

i am sure cheerleading is great fun and a good way to keep fit. if girls just do it for those reasons and they enjoy it, that is great.
cheerleading, tho, is usually set in the context of scantily-dressed girls and young women cheering on teams of boys and men to success. that is the part that i object to.

POGS Sun 02-Mar-14 12:40:44

Sorry not a feminist so I don't see what the fuss is about.

My GD does attend a Cheer Leading Group and she loves it. It is very nice to see her interacting with such a lovely bunch of girls with ages from 4 - 15. The older girls are really kind and it most certainly does not, as the implication on here goes, concern being cute and beautiful.

What is the harm with it?. Did the W.I have to suffer such clap trap when they were 'I must, I must improve my bust'. Perhaps they did.

The fact is Cheer Leading, Snow Boarding, Street Dance etc. are nothing more than modern activities and I for one would rather my GD did something she enjoyed and kept fit as apposed to what, playing games on a computer.

By the way she did rugby too but gave that up, her choice.

As for the OP I look at the topic not as telling girls to simply go out and do 'girly' activities. I think she was simply trying to remind girls that there was a diversity of sports/activities that they could consider where maybe they hadn't thought about them. Better to do something rather than nothing.

absent Sat 01-Mar-14 18:30:34

If women's sport were more highly valued, then perhaps girls would be more enthusiastic about taking it up. David Cameron's excited comments about Murray's Wimbledon championship, completely writing former British women champions out of the picture, displayed all that is wrong with attitudes to women's sport in Britain. Apart from the Olympics and some tennis, sportswomen rarely feature in mainstream news in the UK.