granny23, how sad for you, your SiL and your DGD. You'll feel stronger tomorrow no doubt and be there for those who need you. Come back here if you need to. 
GM, hope your DH is not wearing you out. Time for a sit down.
It's lovely to be home from that big London place and nice to pop in here to see everyone. I've just put a tray of chicken thighs, peppers, red onions, garlic and baby potatoes in - they smell divine - anyone like some. Think it's time for the
now. I could drink two bottles for the same price DH paid for a glass at the Royal Festival Hall last night, although I might feel a bit poorly.