How do you feel about having your Gransnet name abbeviated? I just realised that I do it all the time but would never do so if we were face to face unless it was clear that you were happy with it. I would never do it in an email either so why do I do in on Gransnet?
I don't like my real name being abbreviated but am quite happy with all the ways my Gransnet name has been. How odd
It can cause a bit of a problem! I was confused with Hunter F and asked if I had had a sex change. Someone said the other day that Hunt was kind . She meant Hunter F and for a moment I thought,'' How nice, but how does she know I'm kind?''
DD has the same name as me but she shortened it to three letters as soon as she could talk. DS has DH's middle name as his name and insisted on using the shorter version. Nobody calls them by their given names now.
I get called number on every forum I go on, so nothing new in it getting shortened on here. I`ve always been called by my middle name, but both my Christian names have only 4 letters, so hard to shorten.
There are some names which just do sound more friendly when shortened, aren't there? Kate, for instance, or Kathy, sounds softer and less formal than Katherine.
I went through a rather prissy stage in my early twenties when I thought it was a bit disrespectful to shorten someone's name until I found that a friend just hated me calling her Janet and much preferred 'Jan'.
Absent that's funny, my father used to call people "Doings" when he couldn't remember their names - he was from Nottinghamshire - I always assumed it was a Notts habit - where did your father originate?
My mother always insisted that my name shouldn't be shortened by anyone and then in her sixties she started shortening it herself! I felt like some one quite different
In 'real life' I use my middle name anyway. I really don't mind what abbreviations people use on here. My father in law used to call me 'Fruit' very often when we first met! Now that is a bit weird!