glass hope your GS feels better soon, a month seems like a long time to feel poorly. My son used to get a lot of tummy pains in reception class I put it down to nerves but GP said it could be migraine.
Not really an option to stay at son's but we will do a lot of the care at their home instead of bringing her back to ours and we can then pick up other GD from school instead of her having to go to after school club.
In the good old days I was at home so never had to worry about childcare. DIL is very good and takes days off without pay to cover difficult times, like tomorrow, so I can go to the funeral.