I couldn't live in my flat if I did not have the French windows opening onto my south facing balcony, and lovely views.
I have had big houses, with land and stables, when my girls were at home, but now I want to be able to close the shutters, turn off the electricity and swan off to NZ for six weeks at a time. My daughter has about two acres out there and I will eventually be buying a mobile cottage to put in her garden.
I had a house with a pool and a garden when I first moved to France, but I found there was always something that needed doing, and I am no gardener.
Not just horses for courses, but different needs at different stages of your life. I can now walk straight from my door up to the ski slopes with their fabulous views so I never feel claustrophobic (although I have always felt uneasy in enclosed spaces and always sit at the very end of the back row in the cinema so that I feel I can make a quick exit. The one time I really am trapped is in a plane, sometimes for 14 hours, and for some reason that never bothers me!)