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What are you giving up for Lent?

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yogagran Tue 21-Feb-12 20:07:12

My OH asked me this question this evening and I couldn't come up with an answer.

What are you giving up?

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 21-Mar-14 11:32:58

Ah, right. Yes, I see. smile

Elegran Fri 21-Mar-14 11:30:16

Literary Criticism. Reading something then analysing to death all the writing, characterisation, references to other books, influences by and on other writers etc etc and etc.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 21-Mar-14 11:26:10

What is LitCrit please?

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 21-Mar-14 11:25:05

I can't go along with that "consider the lillies of the field" bit. It's a very beautiful passage, but not very practical.

Elegran Fri 21-Mar-14 11:13:10

Of course He knew about metaphors - maybe not by that name but he used the concept.

The parables Jesus told are extended metaphors.

petallus Fri 21-Mar-14 11:02:34

I wish I could live like Matthew advises but who does apart from those living in religious communities?

petallus Fri 21-Mar-14 11:00:12

But would Jesus have known about metaphor?

MiceElf Fri 21-Mar-14 10:52:34

It's not about LitCrit, it's about the way you live your life smile

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 21-Mar-14 10:37:33

You have to get in the same mindset as Jesus Petallus.

petallus Fri 21-Mar-14 10:34:26

Yes MiceElf i know about metaphors grin

I just didn't think it was a very good metaphor.

MiceElf Fri 21-Mar-14 09:57:36

I think setting an example, especially to our children, is a very different matter from announcing to the world at large the amount and degree of one's generosity.

Elegran Fri 21-Mar-14 09:56:57

Crossed posts. Anno I'd have been before you but I paused to check who said it.

Elegran Fri 21-Mar-14 09:56:09

"Be good by stealth and blush to have it fame" Alexander Pope.

annodomini Fri 21-Mar-14 09:54:15

"Do good by stealth" is somewhere in the New Testament, isn't it?

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 21-Mar-14 09:50:51

Excellent comment Lona. Very true.

Lona Fri 21-Mar-14 09:44:25

But isn't it setting a good example to let others see your acts of generosity. I don't mean boasting about stuff.
If our children don't see us being generous how will they know how to be like that?

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 21-Mar-14 09:39:34

"Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them"

That reminds me of a proverb I read years ago. "Wear your knowledge like a watch. Strike it only when asked the time, not just to show you have one".

I like that.

MiceElf Fri 21-Mar-14 09:39:22

It's a metaphor. If you do anything, anything good at all, then keep it tight to your chest. And that's a metaphor too!

As to how many Christians follow that advice, God only knows.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 21-Mar-14 09:36:10

I've still got the bible I won at Sunday School. smile Need a large magnifying glass to read it now though.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 21-Mar-14 09:34:51

Self denial is supposed to be good for self-discipline. Apparently, the more you practice it, the easier it becomes. Can't see much point in it really. Only more to get hung up about. Why put yourself through it?

Unless it's for charity, of course.

petallus Fri 21-Mar-14 09:31:58

I've just had a look in my mother's old school bible.

A lot of sound moral and psychological advice in chapter 6 I agree.

From my own experience I agree with what Matthew says.

I notice he gets a bit racist (towards Gentiles) towards the end of ch 6 though smile

Also, how many Christians follow his advice these days?

Finally MiceElf how does not letting your left hand know what your right hand does relate to keeping things to yourself, since both hands belong to you.

I know that last point is pedantic but I am puzzled.

MiceElf Fri 21-Mar-14 08:43:09

The Gospel of Matthew, chapter 6. Lots if good stuff there.

thatbags Fri 21-Mar-14 08:31:30

But now I am confused again. See "Selfies" thread and gimmicks to raise money for cancer research. It seems you have to be public about your helpfulness in order for it to work and that's exactly what I dislike.

thatbags Fri 21-Mar-14 08:26:56

I like that quote, mice.

petallus Fri 21-Mar-14 07:46:32

Interpretation please?