twobabes, daisymay70 and anyone else who's concerned about this - we don't have a chat room (by which I assume you mean you're chatting in real time to anyone who happens to be online at the same time) because we think we can do this anyway with the forums, especially as we grow. And there's a lot to be gained by letting people come in at other times (if they can only post in the evenings, say) and join the conversations.
The forum titles are only there to help - there are no rules about where you actually start threads or the way the conversation develops. If you think you're off message, don't worry. You may be pleasantly surprised by how many other people want to talk about the same thing. And if they don't, they'll carry on with what they were discussing.
This area - chat - is here so people can discuss random things. There are no rules, other than the usual ones about not being offensive or racist. That's also true of Am I Being Unreasonable, although the random stuff there may be a bit more feisty.
I hope this makes things a bit clearer - but if we can do more, let us know.