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When you give someone a book..

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JackyB Tue 02-Nov-21 09:47:33

...do you write a message on the inside? It is a good way to remind people when they got the book and who from, but it makes it difficult to pass on the book, unless it is really old, and all the parties involved are no longer with us, when it becomes an interesting piece of history.

People don't seem to do this so much these days. Here in Germany if you buy a book as a present the shop will gift wrap it for you, so there's no opportunity to write in it first. I don't always take advantage of this but even if I wrap it myself I don't always think to write a dedication.

Do you still do it, and do you have any treasured books with inscriptions from people you fondly remember, preferably with a date (and a price of 2/6d on the back cover!)

I know I've still got some books I was given as a child so I think I'll go and have a look at some of mine and come back with quotes if I find any nice ones.

pinkpeony Wed 03-Nov-21 17:08:18

I still have a book I was given as a prize from school for Good Attendance. I always gave my children a book at Christmas which was inscribed "with love from Father Christmas
" and the year. They still have a couple.

threexnanny Wed 03-Nov-21 17:06:09

I had an aunt who always wrote a dedication in books and she worked for a large publishing company. I used to write my children's names in their books but don't any more.
Sometime ago I bought a book at a fete by an author I'd not read before. When I got it home I saw that the author had written a dedication inside to someone with the same name as me!

VioletSky Wed 03-Nov-21 16:20:20

No I wouldn't do this, it isn't logical to me, I don't write an inscription on anything else I gift unless it is something they would wear or put on display like jewellery or a personalised plaque. Books shouldn't go dusty on shelves because never to be looked at again cos someone (not the author) wrote in it, they are made to be shared.

Inscriptions from the author make sense though.

I do have a personalised bookmark I treasure though

valdali Wed 03-Nov-21 16:08:38

I haven't in recent years, I used to.My children have lots of children's books with their grandad's copperplate inscription and we would never part with them for that. (We are probably book hoarders).I will now start doing it again, as posters say, not chick-lit or first editions (fine chance) but for nice hardback presents. It's lovely.

Nonogran Wed 03-Nov-21 15:51:18

No I would not deface a book by writing a dedication inside. I would prefer to tuck a card inside with my dedication on it. The card serves as a bookmark.

inishowen Wed 03-Nov-21 15:42:21

I have my copy of Heidi inscribed from my much loved auntie in 1957.

Calistemon Wed 03-Nov-21 15:23:29

I don't but always put my name and address in books when I was a child.
"If this book should chance to roam
Box its ears and send it home to:"
Name, address, including country, Europe, The World, The Universe.
Just in case it got lost.

queenofsaanich69 Wed 03-Nov-21 15:02:28

I never have but reading the above I wish I had——- I bought a beautiful book of 150 Views of The Lake District 40 years ago for 25 cents and it was dated 1900 Head Master,I love it so interesting..I give books to my 7 grandchildren (as they have everything else)they all read them avidly,although I read books on my I Pad I still find it nice to read a real book sometimes.

mar76 Wed 03-Nov-21 14:53:54

I have my mother's book dated 1926 which she was presented for good attendance called "Things will take a Turn".

grandtanteJE65 Wed 03-Nov-21 14:40:36

No, I no longer write in the book, as doing so decreases its monetary value if anyone should wish to sell it at a later date.

I enclose a card with a message on it sometimes.

Like German shops Danish ones wrap presents for you when you buy them, but you can add a card by sellotaping it to the outside of the parcel.

SillyNanny321 Wed 03-Nov-21 14:03:32

Having processed donated books in a charity shop for many years it helped sometimes to date a very old book as publication dates etc are relatively new in the history of books. Some very collectable & valuable books were able to be identified by a message & date in a very old book.

Esspee Wed 03-Nov-21 13:52:27

As someone who gets upset if anyone turns up the corner of the page to mark the place I don't write in books I give as gifts. However I wouldn't refuse a first edition with an inscription from the author.

Sardinia2020 Wed 03-Nov-21 13:04:08

I’d never do it.

Supernain Wed 03-Nov-21 13:01:05

I have a hamlyn all colour cookbook signed and dated from my mother in 1977 and also have a lovely first hymn book presented with incription to my grandmother in 1902. I personally don’t write In books

GrannyBettie Wed 03-Nov-21 12:49:19

When we were children, my sister once picked up a book at a jumble sale to find the inscription was to my cousin from my mum and dad!

Happysexagenarian Wed 03-Nov-21 12:44:59

What a coincidence, I was thinking about this yesterday as I just bought several Christmas books for my grandchildren!

Yes, I do usually write a message for my children or grandchildren. I have books given to me by my mother and grandparents and it's lovely to see their handwriting whenever I open them, and I like to think that my GC would feel the same when they reopen a book from me in years to come.

Sometimes I print book plates to attach if there is not a signature panel in the book. Printed bookplates are also handy if you want to pass on a book that has been signed, perhaps to a charity shop or library.

I have a growing collection of children's books both old and new, usually bought for the wonderful illustrations. Sometimes the old books have inscriptions in them and it always sets me wondering who those people were, and did the child enjoy the book....

Theoddbird Wed 03-Nov-21 12:29:45

In personalized books for my grandchildren I always have a message from me put into them when they are made. I have a couple of books given to me years ago that have personalized messages in. I think it is a good idea.

annehinckley Wed 03-Nov-21 12:25:14

In my late teens my father, on impulse, bought me a Complete Works of Shakespeare from a station bookstall. When he gave it to me I asked him to write in it. I'm so glad I did.

Tanjamaltija Wed 03-Nov-21 12:21:33

It's nice to get a personal dedication in the book, especially if it's by the person who wrote it. The only minus is that if you already have a book that has a dedication, you cannot re-gift the second copy if that, too, has a dedication, or even change it at the shop.

MamaCaz Tue 02-Nov-21 18:40:14

My OH always writes his name in his books, but I don't suppose that counts. hmm

He says it's so if he lends them, the borrower is more likely to return it, as they can't forget who it belongs to!

Audi10 Tue 02-Nov-21 17:45:41

Yes, always right a little message inside, Always have & Always will

nexus63 Tue 02-Nov-21 17:42:27

i never give books, i would rather give them a book token/amazon voucher and i would never write a message in a book, my gran sometimes gave me books but would always include a bookmark. i love books but they need to be large print so i have been using a kindle for a few years, plus i read 2/3 books every week.

Lincslass Tue 02-Nov-21 17:36:10

Have four books written in, one, Vanity Fair from aged 10, from our neighbours. 2 Sunday school prizes, my GG Bible, presented to him in 1902. Lovely to look back and remember where they were from , and adds to the history of them.

Baggs Tue 02-Nov-21 17:01:20

My oldest wildflower book (Keble Martin) was from my aunt for my 15th birthday. My dad got his college librarian to give the sleeve a protective backing and she stuck the card into that on the inside of the book.

My parents gave me an india paper Complete Works of Shakespeare for my 18th birthday and they wrote in that.

I still have and use both.

baubles Tue 02-Nov-21 13:58:07

Yes I’ve always done it. Just a to and from and the date.

I have my Grandmother’s prayer book bearing an inscription from her aunt dated Easter 1920 also books to me from the same grandmother as well as a couple from my father.