Newly widowed

Saddened to hear your news, HelterSkelter1.

Thinking of you at this difficult time💐

I’m so sorry for your loss, Helterskelter - very early days for you on this hardest and longest of all roads to tread, but, in time you’ll learn to make small adjustments, in your heart and in your head, that will enable you to move forward. And he’ll always be there to help you💐.

I’m so sorry. 💐xx

Sending you a big hug and both condolences for your loss and good positive wishes for your new future, Heltershelter

Sending gentle hugs

Like many others I am thinking of you . 💐💐

My sincere condolences to you HelterSkelter. I will be thinking of you and hoping that family and friends are surrounding you with their love. You have loved and cared for him and been there for him all this time, and that makes it so much harder in the beginning, when your days revolved round his needs. Know that your friends on GN are always here for you whatever time of day or night you might need someone around.

I am sorry to hear about your loss HelterSkelter. Be kind to yourself, and accept any offers of help from your friends and family.

Sincere condolences Helterskelter many of us empathise with you.
Stay chatting to us ,we will listen and totally understand.
My H’s bed was in our dining room and I was unable to eat in there again after he died.
I eventually got rid of all the dining furniture , got a small table and four chairs for the conservatory and have now made a snug ,just for me, in the former dining room.

My sincere condolences Helteskelter.
Like you I nursed my husband at home. After his death I used to do what you are doing, stand in the room and picture him there.
At the moment you are in the 'gut wrenching ' awfulness of new grief.
I promise you that this dreadful pain will ease, but you will always love, miss and remember your husband.
Keeping you in my thoughts.

Oh dear lady, so very sad for you. Lean on your family and friends for strength and support and please be kind to yourself now and take things slowly. 💐

So sorry HelterSkelter.
I remember the feeling so well. I kept expecting him to walk in the door.

Thinking of you right now and sending you strength 💐💐🙏🏾

My condolences HelterSkeltet

💐 sorry to hear how hard it has been.

All best wishes from me, too, HelterSkelter.

Sending condolences and love. Hard times ahead. Keep posting on here when you feel you can.

I am so sorry for your loss HelterSkelter.Sending you my sincere condolences 💐

Condolences to you, even when it's expected it jolts you when it actually happens. Take care.

Very early days Helterskelter. Accept help from family and friends. They will help you through it 💐

Ah, I absolutely understand about your feet returning to the bedroom and the strangeness of the emptiness there.

It feels so unreal. I’m sorry for your loss.

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How very sad for you and your family 💐

I am sorry for your loss.

Sending condolences. 💐

Thank you for your kind posts. I know you understand how I am feeling.

Sending love abd condolences, Helterskelter. You know you can talk to us if it helps.