While I have every sympathy and indeed understanding of how people feel when they cannot face the future (and yes, I have been there too), I do not think this is the time or the place to do anything more than offer our support, friendship, yes, love, to a friend who is in the saddest place there is.
I do not know and would not presume to even guess at what motivates anyone to end it all and certainly not Anniebch’s DD , but as mothers we can send a strong message of support and understanding.