Money and a nice bottle of Fizz or a voucher for a fancy meal. Young people do not need/want stuff as many already have a home,together... If not ask them if there is anything they would like or need?
as many already live together so many have what they need not to mention many are fussy! it all has to designer etc i think money or vouchers are beter
My mother-in-law gave my son and daughter-in-law an antique silver bon-bon type dish.
My (now) daughter-in-law said to me later that she thought it spoke to my mother-in-law's age (100 then) and that silver was probably considered quite precious when she was young.
I know they didn't really want it - but they will certainly keep it as they will remember the love that came with it.
Voucher to a nice restaurant, tickets for a show/event ... I would go down the route of quality time together/an experience so they can prioritise a date night in amongst wedding planning
Only one of my 6 GCs is engaged. They sent me a WhatsApp photo of themselves which prompted me to buy a silver frame, very plain and modern. I never had a thank you so don't know whether it was appreciated!
Yes I think money or a voucher theses days rather than things for their bottom drawer. Especially if they may already be living together and have all the essential household items they need.
Not sure that it would occur to me to give them a present at all! I suppose depends up to a point on how many grandchildren you have and how close you are. Money would need to be a decent amount, whereas ‘that pretty plate’, ‘that frightful vase’ can always be remembered as a ‘a present from grandmother yonks ago’.