An idea I have used for all sorts of anniversaries that you might find a possibilty. So you collect together a group of , in this case, Gold things. That can be anything so you could have a tin of golden syrup, a packet of biscuits that are wrapped in gold paper, a gold coloured candle, a gold biro or pencil, etc., then get some gold paper and wrap an appropriate size box - say a shoe box, and put the collection together in that and perhaps take a bunch of sunflowers to add to the gold theme. It can provide a bit of fun , and if they are small things wrap them up in gold paper - do they still have that pears soap that you can almost see through? That could count as gold as well. - it makes a little bit of a difference from the normal presents, gets people talking about what else they could have added and gives others ideas for things like ruby wedding etc. I find it works well for such occasions for older people , who have already got all the things they need in the house. With my parents ruby wedding I spent quite some weeks getting all sorts of stuff from blackcurrant jelly to beetroot etc, and the point was I suggested that with the money they saved from the housekeeping to also go out and have a nice coffee or afternoon tea later. So if that seems too much effort for this occasion it might be useful in the future, and for now you could buy the sunflowers but perhaps also buy them some prepared yellow hyacinths that would be out at christmas for them. Hope these ideas are helpful