I think I might let things rest for now. Everyone is going to be out a bit less over the winter, and by spring she may have a bit better measure of her neighbours.
It's also a bit unclear from your post as to how much & how often, and also whether your daughter has got to know them much.
If I was putting out the washing / picking some herbs/bringing in some logs and 2 good old friends called across to each other about something, I probably wouldn't bother too much - though I'd say 'Hello!'
But if I was sitting out in my garden and a full conversation was going on, I would feel excluded.
Has she already taken a chance to invite neighbours in - for coffee / hot chocolate on Firework Night / find out the local etiquette for Halloween? All opportunities to become part of what's going on, or just to know where you stand.
Your Smartphone may be overheating!!! Keep an eye out.
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