Sorry, Kate1949 but this is my pet hate. If somebody is living in the house, e.g. a partner who does not need care, and it's their house, then nobody is going to sell it from under them to pay for the other partner's care.
If nobody is living in the house and the reason for putting it in a "scheme" is to hide it from the people assessing your assets, so that you are able to leave it to whom you choose, to me, that's unethical.
I'm trying to sort out care for my elderly DF at the moment and I will use all of his assets, including the house he has lived in for 50 years, if it means we can get the right care for him. And we don't expect anyone else to pay for it while he's sitting on property.
My dad spent 40 years mastering his craft, and last week someone half his age told him how to eat.😠
Birmingham Meet-ups Thread 2 - 2026
