Another vote to go from me. Follow distancing guidelines and have a wonderful day! Perhaps if you’re feeling a little anxious your son could discreetly mention to the other guests in advance of the big day and they’ll pay extra attention to give you a wide berth.
Oh, do go - you’ll regret it forever if you don’t. Wear a mask, carry hand sanitiser, stay 2m away from other guests etc, but don’t absent yourself from this major milestone in your son’s life, especially as this will be the first wedding without his Dad.
Could I please ask for your advice. My son is getting married at the end of October. This will be the final family marriage and the only one after his fathers death. My husband (His father) attended the wedding of our other two children and I feel I really should attend. I have only been out of my house once since beginning of March as I am at risk health wise. There will be only 30 people in total, but a lot of them are nurses. This son has been absolutely wonderful to me since my husband’s death and I could not have managed without him so I really feel I would like to support him. We are a small family and our side of the venue will be very empty. He has said it is totally my decision. Any thoughts please.