Just mentioning that because I thought the whole purpose of feminism was to claim more choice. If you don't want to wear heels because of the discomfort, then don't. Nobody will mind.
A long floaty/sparkly top with leggings is fashionable and looks good with flat court shoes. Or a shorter length dress, just above the knee, with coloured tights and flat shoes. I can't cope with heels any more and have a nice pair of gold flat leather shoes. I wore the above combinations on a recent cruise and felt both appropriately dressed and comfortable. Even young people who start the evening in heels end up dancing barefoot anyway!
I’m always inclined to wear heels with a skirt or dress but these days you don’t have to. Think Carla Bruni. Ballet flats or smart ankle boots work especially with knee-length or shorter dresses & thick tights.
A very good friend is getting married in a couple of weeks (4th time- brave lady!!) & is having her 'Hen' week after next. It is going to be quite a riotous night & I have no clue what to wear. I don't want to buy anything new (watching money after Xmas) but there will be dancing & eating & drinking. I don't really want to wear trousers as I get very hot but a skirt or dress will mean high heels which will be agony by about 11pm. I have a nice outfit for the actual wedding ( Oh I hope it fits after Xmas excesses!!) Anybody got any bright ideas??