Pub at Christmas

I think people are being 'bristly' because spending Christmas day in a pub isn't really the same as working for the NHS - it's a choice that people make, conveniently forgetting that staff who don't own the business might be forced into working when they'd quite like to be home with their families.

My husband used to help me to prepare the Christmas meal so did not go to the pub on Christmas morning although, he always called in to the “ 6 o’ clock club”. On the way home from from work on weekdays.

New Year’s Day was a different thing - those who belonged to the ‘club’ felt it a matter of pride to be at the pub as it opened, to prove they could ‘cope’ with the previous night’s celebrations.

It was always an option to work on Christmas day in a pub, unlike any of the care roles, where you may get a 12.5 hour shift.

I don't know why people are being so bristly about it.

Surely the staff deserve a Christmas just like most people

I absolutely agree glammagran

Lots of very nice people do.
The bar is always packed with people wearing new jumpers, with Slade playing, and Noddy shouting "IT'S CHRISTMAS!!"

I can’t imagine who would want to go the pub on Christmas Day (or shopping on Boxing Day for that matter). Surely the staff deserve a Christmas just like most people.

Aw it’s not a competition! No virtue in those who don’t and no valour in those who do, surely?

In some families (maybe Northern?) it’s a thing. In others it isn’t.

So long as everyone’s happy within their own family eh?

As a child my parents run a pub. Christmas was a nightmare for me and my siblings. Mum and dad would be downstairs serving the customers in the “ lock-in” all afternoon. The pub was closed on the Christmas Day evening whilst mum and dad slept off the effects of the drink. My elder sister looked after us younger ones. Wild horses could not pull me to a pub on Christmas Day or any other days for that matter.

They wouldn’t have got any dinner if they pulled that on my mother .Mum ruled ...and dad and brothers knew it!!

@ paintingthetownred
The comments I felt were uncalled for were the ones criticising the OP question. They weren’t agreeing or disagreeing with the anecdote.
“Strange kind of question H1954…. Why would any comments like this cause you to question what others do?” And
“Who cares???”
Do you not feel it’s bad manners to criticise a member’s attempt to start a discussion?

Agree with MOnica.
My family were the same.
The whole day was family orientated especially as my fathers b`day was on Christmas day as is my grandson`s.

My boyfriend and my son (47) always go to the pub on Christmas morning. My son comes home "happy" but my boyfriend is usually quite sloshed. He's good to me all year round, so I put up with it, even when halfway through his Christmas dinner he falls asleep and his head falls onto his plate. I always take a photo then to show him what a wally he has been.

No- one in my family has ever gone to the pub on Christmas Day and we certainly don’t go in for stereotypical gender roles of the menfolk at the pub while the women slave away in the kitchen I must admit I didn’t know pubs were even open on Christmas Day.

Too many places opening now on Christmas Day for my liking - unless they’re genuinely offered a choice of working/not working what a shame for the employees who probably want to be at home with their families.

My ex always went to the pub and being an alcoholic Christmas was never a happy occasion. The last Christmas many moons ago was the final straw and as soon as the solicitors were open again I filed for divorce. My now DH of 37 years has never and would never go to the pub Christmas morning.

Gosh, Cleaopanda, not sure about your definition of 'rude'.

Surely you mean 'disagreeing'. Not the same.

Anyone who starts a thread on a public forum can surely expect a challenge and people to disagree with them?

Love it. I did the same years ago.

Typical "Poor Mum"

I remember my Grandfather going to the pub before (Sunday) lunch quite often, but not closer relatives. He probably did go on Christmas Day, but I don't really remember that. My hubby doesn't drink and the nearest pub is some four miles distant, as we live in a rural area. He would not go out without me, even if invited - so we wouldn't get a Christmas dinner, unless he booked one for us (which he has offered to do in the past).

Gosh, can’t believe the few people who have rudely questioned the OP about the question.
Surely, whenever a member posts an anecdote, they are simply starting a conversation?
If you are disinterested in the topic, you are free to ignore and move on.
If a friend or acquaintance told you a short tale about an overheard conversation, would you be so rude in your response?
Although I don’t have a particular response for the question, I certainly enjoyed reading the (non-rude) replies.

how about all the women having a day off cooking, all going to the restaurant/pub and the blokes pay for it...

After all, when you factor in all the cooking, cleaning, washing and washing up we do all year, we save them a packet. Not to mention care responsibilities. And no washing up ladies. Fab.

all best
painting

We don't. I can imagine if I lived in a nice village with a lovely pub very close by DH and I might drop in for a glass or two before lunch, if we knew other people there. As we live in a village with a not very nice pub where we know none of the regulars we won't.

OMG! Really?!
I'm sure pubs in the Midlands and South do very well on Christmas day ?

BIL used to do this with his Dad and AC but these days he's less keen. I think his wife has got him under control at last.

When I first met my second husband I discovered that this strange trip to a public house was the norm for his family.

I told him point blank that if he buggered off to the pub when Christmas Dinner was being prepared I'd be off.

After all, I needed him to cook the meal!

When we were first married my Dad, my brother and DH used to go to the pub on Xmas Day, leaving Mum and me to do all the work! I was not so keen on that idea once we had children. Now we all go - DH and ACs muck in to prepare the veg etc and we put the turkey in the oven and stroll to the local (about the only time of year we go to that particular pub) for a couple of drinks, then come back to eat a mid afternoon dinner. It's nice to get out of the house for an hour or so and get a breath of fresh air on the way there and back, and there are usually a few people we know to wish Happy Christmas to.