Excluded from holiday planing

Could it be that he knows you so well that he doesnt feel the need to consult you.

Do you not like surprises or do you just like to be in control? I love it when my husband surprises me with holidays he has booked without me knowing where or what is! It’s an adventure superqueen. I would just ask “what do I need to pack”. Go with the flow and IF it’s not what you would have chosen, you may find you really enjoy it. Do let us know how you get on ?

My chap would suggest but leave the final decission to me as long as he was in walking distance of a good bar for wine & tapa's he is a happy chap.

I'd have to pick myhself up off the floor too.

Mind you, DH might not pick the hotel I would like .....

If my DH announced he'd booked a holiday for us I'd drop down dead in amazement.

Trophy person?

Oh, how wonderful

DH has only ever booked one weekend away for us in 50+ years - how I long for him to research, plan and book a lovely holiday for us.


Just enjoy it

It depends where it is. Whisked away to the Caribbean- great. Bird watching group in the British Isles. A different kettle of fish.

If it’s any consolation the lover took me for a weekend watching his favourite sport for my birthday.

Maybe it's a special holiday and he wants to surprise you. Give him a break! Poor chap if he left it to you he would be in trouble and if he does it all he's in trouble.

At least he has done something - my OH has never ever ever had anything whatsoever to do with the job of booking holidays!

Has your OH told you where you are going? Doyou likeit? If so, I should just go with the flow and be thankfulhe has some initiative! But then say you would like to be involved in the choice next time.

He wouldn’t of gotten as far as booking it without my input if he were my OH. Unless he actually did it without telling you?

Oh dear - I'd be so cheesed off I may just decide to book a holiday I really want.
Does he usually do this kind of thing? Was he trying to give you a wonderful surprise? Men!