No feelings for 1st grandchild

We're not all baby people that feel an overwhelming "rush" for that tiny helpless being.
Don't worry. It will come.

I never believed in love at first sight....

Love will grow don’t worry. it’s harder with DGC as you haven’t carried them for 9months but once you spend time with the baby it will come

Pretend

I had trouble bonding with one of my identical twins and my mother suggested that we needed to learn each other and that I should try sitting quietly with them when they were awake and maintaining eye contact. My dollop and I studied each other very carefully and I began to see the personality in there. She obviously did so to and I was the first person she smiled at....or I like to think so. We’ve never looked back and I think we have a deep understanding. Anyway, I learned to love her in those quiet moments. It will come. Go gaze!