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Why am I losing my sewing mojo? Things seem more difficult now than when I was a beginner sewer!

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AskAlice Sat 06-Jun-26 19:42:05

I sewed a little as a teenager (sewing class at school) but never really enjoyed it. My mum's profession was a Court Dressmaker, and she tried to encourage me and showed me the basics and a few hints and tips but, like most teenagers, I didn't make the most of her knowledge and skills.

Just before Covid struck, I got out my old sewing machine and started sewing for my young GD. I got the bug, converted the smallest bedroom to a sewing room and for the next five years or so sewed for myself, my GC and my DH. I gradually improved and things like setting in sleeves, gathering skirts to bodices and putting on collars became, if not easy, at least not as scary as they were when I first attempted them.

Why then am I finding myself feeling less confident about tackling projects with new techniques and skills that I haven't done before. I feel that my confidence is waning instead of increasing. Does anyone have any tips for boosting my confidence and getting my sewing enthusiasm back?

Susie42 Sun 07-Jun-26 10:14:47

This happened to me so I decided to sew very simple items such as skirts, T-shirts, pyjamas. I also started patchwork and quilting. The sewing mojo returned.

Ilovecheese Sun 07-Jun-26 13:51:57

I also recommend patchwork and quilting.

Gwyllt Sun 07-Jun-26 17:12:02

I feel really guilty before we moved ten years ago I bought a replacement sewing machine to replace one I bought in about 1970 Made all sorts from curtains to clothes for myself and my two boys. I am ashamed to say all I have done is get it out of the box. It looks so much more complicated. My excuse is !!! I
Really must give it a go

SewLily Sun 07-Jun-26 17:36:41

Sometimes we just need a break from things, or like Sisie42 says try something simpler/smaller where you quickly get the 'its finished' happy feeling again.

SewLily Sun 07-Jun-26 17:40:33

Personally patchwork or quilting doesn't do it for me; finding nice fabric motivates me.

AskAlice Sun 07-Jun-26 18:02:55

Gwyllt, when I started sewing again I was using an old Jones machine that I bought in 1982. It seized up after a year or so, and I bought a new machine, Singer Confidence, which was so much more up to date. I felt a bit intimidated at first but by reading the manual from cover to cover and using YouTube I soon got the hang of it. I've managed to rescue the old Jones machine with some cleaning, oiling and TLC. I now have a Janome machine as well (I still use the Jones and the Confidence sometimes just for a change!) So I feel a bit guilty that I now have 3 sewing machines and am not sewing as much as I did a year or so ago.

But just give it a go. What have you got to lose? You've got the machine now and can't turn back time! Baby steps and then just have a bit of fun trying things out.

SewLily, yes I know what you mean about having a bit of a break. I'll try some simpler projects over the next few weeks. I have tried patchwork but find it a bit tedious. I do have some lovely fabrics in my stash, I just need to get myself into the mood again.

HeyGirl Sun 07-Jun-26 21:57:33

Maybe try a sew-a-long project? Some fabric shops do these, or go along to a social sewing group or workshop? You may find you get your mojo back when you sew with other like-minded people.

Rosie51 Mon 08-Jun-26 00:53:43

My sewjo was destroyed by the last 3 garments I've sewed being total rubbish that didn't come close to fitting me, despite careful measuring etc 😥 I really don't want to make yet another tshirt type top from the pattern that always works.......

vegansrock Mon 08-Jun-26 06:56:55

Maybe investigate classes you could go to. There will be new ones starting in September. I did a lingerie making class, a couture class and a pattern making class over several years which I enjoyed and taught me lots of new skills, working with fine fabrics, using the overlocker, different seams and finishing techniques etc.

AskAlice Mon 08-Jun-26 09:27:50

Thank you all for your replies. I will have a look at some sewing classes/groups locally, that sounds like something I would enjoy. Rosie51 - that's exactly what has happened to me! It's very frustrating, isn't it?

Esmay Mon 08-Jun-26 15:42:55

Last week in a weak moment I bought some bargain Liberty lookalike fabric in the market.
I bought six lots .
Why ?
I found a box of unmade fabric which I'd forgotten about .
It has sat there for about a decade !
In the back of my mind was a half baked idea to make some toy rabbits -inspired by a homemade dress in a Liberty print which doesn't fit.
We all do it!

Witzend Mon 08-Jun-26 15:45:56

Well, I know why I lost mine - nowhere to leave the sewing machine out, too much of a faff to clear the dining table, get it out, and stow away again, except for the occasional project,

Knitting on the sofa is just that much less of a faff!

M0nica Mon 08-Jun-26 19:21:39

I agree with vegansrock. Do a course. When I got a new sewing machine, I did a weekend course called 'Know your sewing machine, our tutor was May Martin of Sewing Bee fame, she was excellent.

Look online to see if there are any short courses convenient for you

AskAlice Tue 09-Jun-26 18:32:37

I'm very jealous Monica! May Martin is a particular hero of mine. Old school and down to earth, and so knowledgeable and skilled. I've just ordered a second-hand copy of her "Sewing Bible" and am looking forward to receiving it.

I've tried to find local courses and groups, but no success so far. The nearest one seems to be for secondary school age - not sure what they'd make of me joining in if it was allowed grin

I'll keep researching.

Oreo Tue 09-Jun-26 20:00:37

It’s a case of like most things, use it or lose it.

petra Tue 09-Jun-26 20:17:17

Rosie51

My sewjo was destroyed by the last 3 garments I've sewed being total rubbish that didn't come close to fitting me, despite careful measuring etc 😥 I really don't want to make yet another tshirt type top from the pattern that always works.......

If you have a charity shop near you ask them if they have any sheets that are destined for the rag bag.
I’m lucky that I work in a charity shop where I can buy the sheets.
Probably about £1 a sheet. They will be making a small profit as the bottom has fallen out of the rag market.
Did I mention the sheet is to make a toile.
Or, if there’s a particular style of garment you want, look in the charity shops. Try it on for fit, unpick it. Job done.
I’ve bought 3 such garments this week. £1 per garment.

Rosie51 Tue 09-Jun-26 20:30:02

Now that's a good idea petra thanks very much. Not the sheets for a toile, although that is also good, but the deconstructing a garment that is the style and fit I want. As it happens I have a top where I love the style but now hate the fabric, so I'll be on that as soon as I get time. And I shall scout the local charity shops with the realisation that colour and pattern don't matter one bit. 😊👏👏