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M&S - is it me?

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ElaineI Tue 07-Jul-26 15:23:37

I used to buy a lot from M&S often when prices were dropped for members eg. 20% off trousers etc. Now I don't understand how the new system works so have shopped elsewhere. Can anyone explain it?

Wyllow3 Sun 12-Jul-26 00:15:47

GrannyGravy13

I love M & S 🩷

I use one of the local Food Halls weekly, shop online for clothes and household items regularly (click and collect whilst food shopping) Especially now you can buy so many different brands through M & S online.

Returns are easy peasy, and refunds swift.

Use my money off and offers as and when.

I would be lost without this store 👏👏👏

Me too, they get it all just right for me, except great treat tempting when I go to collect items or return them.

Dylis Sat 11-Jul-26 23:20:51

My little treat was a pack of 4 sausage rolls!

GrannyGravy13 Sat 11-Jul-26 18:16:42

I love M & S 🩷

I use one of the local Food Halls weekly, shop online for clothes and household items regularly (click and collect whilst food shopping) Especially now you can buy so many different brands through M & S online.

Returns are easy peasy, and refunds swift.

Use my money off and offers as and when.

I would be lost without this store 👏👏👏

tattygran14 Sat 11-Jul-26 18:01:24

I’ve given up on marks. I faithfully produced their card, never any benefit. I’ve bought a lot online lately, then found out the card wasn’t registered, apparently, and no, surprise, surprise nobody at the food hall could help.
It’s ridiculous, poorly planned and inefficient.
Another disgruntled customer, voting with their feet.

StoneofDestiny Thu 09-Jul-26 23:08:46

prefer the old system.

GreyKnitter Thu 09-Jul-26 19:27:57

I used to buy lots of things in M and S but not so much now. I have some lovely bras that fit but they changed the style and the new ones are a completely different shape and fit. Same with knickers! They change the name of the fit regularly and they’re never half as well fitting as the old style. Iv given several packs - minus the pair I tried - to the charity shop. Asda is a much better fit and much cheaper.

WithNobsOnIt Thu 09-Jul-26 19:14:17

A lot of companies seem to have taken this route in slowly eroding points, discounts and other benefits on their products.

No.matter how long you have been loyal customer.

Also, they want everyone to have their app. You know those things that take ages to set up,. They don't work properly. Not to mention forgetting the pass word,

I refuse to do apps. You are also giving them even more free information
about yourself.

Still get bras and the odd thing from
M&S though.

Can get some Specially Selected foods from AlDI as good as M&S for about 60% if the price.

But l must say that that M&S ground coffee is top stuff. Especially the Rwandan brand

Estrellita Thu 09-Jul-26 18:06:52

I don't understand it either.

Delila Thu 09-Jul-26 17:51:24

Barbadosbelle

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..... and what exactly was your 'little treat'?

Do tell!
.

My extravagant “Little Treat” this week, having reached a spending target of £50 at Waitrose, is a packet of Candy Kittens sweets retailing at £2.75.

Wow! Overwhelming…

Northerntownlass Thu 09-Jul-26 17:11:36

I definitely preferred the 20%/15% off they used to offer. But to appease shareholders with falling profits ( & of course the loss they made during the cyber attack) they cannot afford to be quite so generous with offers/Sparks. I haven't used my £4 so far collected, just curious if you do buy anything and use it and need to return does anyone know if you loose the £4 ?

Leavesden Thu 09-Jul-26 17:00:34

I don’t like the new sparks scheme, I was far more likely to buy something when you got 20% off etc, now you have to spend money to get something back.

AmberGran Thu 09-Jul-26 16:32:51

We don't buy enough of anything to worry to much about rewards systems. We have a Boots card, a Nectar card and a Sparks card and get a little back on any of them.

The Sparks rewards that used to come out every week were usually based on what we last bought so generally useless. If I bought trousers one week it's unlikely I would buy another pair two weeks later, even if it is 15% off. Although I did save a lot on jeggings back in the day when they had lovely colours like coral, burgundy and sky blue.

So the new system is pretty much the same except now instead of getting a saving when I buy the 'saving' goes into a wallet to be used later.

As it is now AI based I wonder if AI will track things we look at online to see what our interest is as well as what we buy.

Barbadosbelle Thu 09-Jul-26 16:30:24

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..... and what exactly was your 'little treat'?

Do tell!
.

Zetters Thu 09-Jul-26 16:10:53

Much too complicated for me .
I personally loved it when we were sent % off vouchers once or twice a year, usually more than one voucher which you could share with friends & family.
I also miss the fact that food halls no longer stock a selection
of clothes, gifts, basics.

DianaLouise Thu 09-Jul-26 15:38:52

much preferred the old way buy something and get 20% off especially with clothes. This way id I do not make target lose everything.

cc Thu 09-Jul-26 15:29:42

Also I've had virtually no "rewards" ever from my Sparks card, it just seems to be a way for them to collect more marketing information about me and my shopping habits.
To be fair I feel much the same about the Waitrose and John Lewis cards, the only reward has been a (very) occasional cup of coffee if I remember to take my own mug.
Boots on the other hand is wonderful, I don't buy a huge amount there but often have enough points to pay for my shopping.

cc Thu 09-Jul-26 15:26:11

Much of what I buy from M&S now is their branded clothing such as White Stuff, and I always look at the manufacturer's site too just in case it is cheaper.
I find their trousers awful, so many are "ankle grazers" or have over-wide legs. I've tried a few pairs recently and all were too short or utterly shapeless in the leg with baggy thighs,
The only things I've bought this year were gym leggings, and even then there was only one style which was the right length and waistband design - out of the dozens that were available. In the stores all the gym leggings are mixed up on the rails and it was impossible to sort out what I wanted, so I had to go home and order online.

polnan Thu 09-Jul-26 15:25:45

I don`t buy much from M&S cos they don`t have the quality or appeal they used to have.

lizzypopbottle Thu 09-Jul-26 15:00:12

Beware!
I ordered some underwear (specifically crop tops and I knew what size I wanted, see below*) online from M&S last Thursday and chose click and collect at the Morpeth store for the following Sunday. My nearest M&S is eleven miles away. I went there on the Sunday morning and mooched around waiting for the email telling me it was ready to collect. There was no message by about 12.15pm so I asked an assistant about it. She told me that all the orders are scanned by midday so, if I'd not had the pick up message, it wouldn't be there that day. I was a bit annoyed but I went home. A message came at 13.08 saying, Good news! Your order is ready to collect! I'd already made a twenty two mile round trip so I certainly didn't go back. Next day, Monday, I was passing near to Morpeth so I called in to collect. The message told me to 'view order' for instructions on how to collect so I touched that button and was greeted with Hi lizzyp! Welcome back! but no collection code. Luckily a different assistant saw my foot stamping frustration and came over to help me.

I'll not order online from them again but the further annoying thing is that the Morpeth store is hopeless for bras. There used to be a measuring service but no more. *To get the original one I had to strip, try on, no good, get dressed, find the size and style, strip, try on, no good, get dressed etc..... My next nearest M&S, with a trained assistant is more than thirty miles away, in Newcastle.

sharon103 Thu 09-Jul-26 14:54:11

Lizzies

Wyllow3 it’s all done through the Sparks card. If you haven’t got one ask in store. It also acts as a loyalty card for the cafe. You get a free hot drink when you have bought six.

They closed down our Foodhall cafe a few weeks ago.

grannybuy Thu 09-Jul-26 14:40:33

I don’t want apps, on principle, as I suspect they’re often more for the benefit of the business rather than the customer. I’ve already got money in my ‘ wallet ‘. If I understand it correctly, you can have the wallet money transferred to your Sparks card, though I haven’t tried it yet, so I could be wrong. I have M & S gift vouchers in my purse, but haven’t seen anything in clothing to tempt me this summer. They seem to be catering for a younger clientele. It’s disappointing, as people of my age have been their loyal customers for many years.

callum12 Thu 09-Jul-26 14:26:38

I dislike the new sparks offers, you have to spend a lot to get rewards on their food and it’s not so good as getting 20% off at till when buying clothes. I don’t even bother showing it these days

Connie16 Thu 09-Jul-26 14:04:56

I do buy quite a lot of clothes at M&S and was always glad of the 20% off which was a great deal. However, I've never used Sparks since the new way of claiming was introduced as you have to spend much more in order to qualify for the 'reward'.

I was going to buy a £20 pair of sandals as I thought I would get the discount, but was advised at the counter that I would have to spend a minimum of £40 on sandals to qualify. I don't want/need two pairs of sandals!

So I went to Zara and bought a pair there instead, paying £22 which was fine as they're lovely.

I can't see me ever using the Sparks card now - as a single person I don't need the quantity of food etc, for example, you need to purchase to get the discount. Very disappointed in M&S.

Romola Thu 09-Jul-26 13:46:22

BUT.... my big gripe is that you can't use Nectar points directly at the till in Sainsbury's like you used to. The girl on the till today in our smallish city centre branch says you have to claim the points discount on an app. I'm so fed up with apps. What about you all?

Susieq62 Thu 09-Jul-26 13:45:41

I gave up my sparks card ages ago as it really didn’t match my shopping habits. I don’t miss it, one less card to have in my purse.