I re-married 8 years ago, my husband and I are both in our late 70s. Turns out he likes to garden naked. (we moved a few years ago and to a house where we’re not overlooked). He gets irritable when I say I don’t like him sitting on the furniture or wandering around gardening. Bending down to plant or prune. (If you see where I’m going with this) He just says “well don’t look!” He’s fit and active and not mentally impaired, Just rather stubborn. Am I being unreasonable?
I’m with you! On holiday my husband goes naked as much as possible and it drives me mad, he gets in the hot tub and the bubbles are blasting his germs everywhere, I hate it! And an older man naked makes me barf quite frankly. I ask him how he would like to sit on a garden chair where the previous occupant had sat on it with his hairy bare bum but he just ignores me.
Reminds me of an occasion many years ago when I was being shown round a house by the estate agent. Looking down from the bedroom window we saw the next door neighbour sunbathing naked.
This thread has made me think of MissAdventure. She would have been quick to post something very witty. I hope she is coping well with her treatment and will be back to posting soon.
Tell him that he is NOT allowed to use the chairs that you sit on, but if you have frequent garden visitors then put plastic covers on on all but one Refuse to go into the same part of the garden when he does this, and turn your chair away.
Obviously likes letting it all hang out!!! Old man Balls a go go!!! Sounds likr a bit of a power play to me. Bit said really.
As long ss the neighbours don't say anything and they surely must lnow about it and its legal. Think you will be stuck with him.
Has he thought of joining a Nudist Colony? Now rebranded as Naturist Gatherings or whatever. He can meet like minded people.
Think there is one in Knutsford in Cheshire. Used to very popular in the Sixties with the Cheshire Set including Pillars of the Loc Establishment includinf Principles of Local FE Colleges. Solicitors and other professionals
Last word. He really does need to to be aware of low flying stinging insects.
Dickens, it's rather a long thread to read it all. Didn't notice that anyone else had asked the question. I don't have the memory capacity to remember every single poster on here. Perhaps you all know each other, which is great, but please make allowances for those who do not.
He's in his own garden and hurting no one. Leave him in peace to enjoy his garden and some freedom from clothes if he wants. Maybe you could join him and put a bit of spice in the relationship. You never know you might like it.