Cake and eating it. In another thread, after seeing in yet another that Jura was residing in Switzerland, I questioned what UK politics had to do with her - and was roundly told by some ally that it was to do with her because of her UK pension and that she might want to return (thinks... when in need of substantial medical care perhaps...). Definitely wanting the cake and the eating it of it. You made a choice, you live with it. Seems fair to me.
Reducing contact because my heart just isn't in it.

