I really agree with you Iam, my father was a bit of a half hearted republican, and I think I was for a while. When I worked up in London, fairly near Buck House it did occur to me that an awful lot of tourists are drawn to our country by the royal family and whilst it would be hard to quantify the money tourists bring into our coffers, it is no doubt a considerable amount and probably pays for them several times over. The Queen was always the backdrop to my life, I have never known another monarch, and whilst I took absolutely no notice of the royal family in my growing up years, I have of late thought she has really made the best of a quite difficult job, a job that if many of us were really honest, we wouldn't want. Even well into her 90s now she still has a multitude of paperwork to deal with and public appearances to attend. Yes there are upsides of being royal, but a multitude of downsides too, in some ways it must be hellish to have to live your entire life in the glare of publicity. Lets not forget how young William and Harry were when they lost their mother and how stoic they had to appear when they walked behind her coffin with the eyes of the world on them, all that pent up emotion and still only children
None of them chose the life, I don't regard the main players as parasites, our royal family has an enormous following throughout the world and it's clear when there is a main event, that a lot of those lining the streets are overseas visitors, not all "fawning English" as one poster sees us down here south of the border. I personally don't know anyone who fawns over them, or bows and scrapes doffs their caps even though that poster has a tendency to describe the English collectively, because of course we are all the same, in thrall to the royal family so much so that we can't help turning into servile, grovelling peasants at the mere mention of their name.
This thread demonstrates very well how a cross section of the public, as I assume GN posters to be, have no appetite for a grand display for a very minor royal when she marries her Jack Whoever, certainly when the security will have to be met by the public purse. I think it only demonstrates how out of touch with the public mood they are. Nevertheless, I think there is a majority who wish to retain a slimmed down royal family, after all some of the most egalitarian European countries such as Denmark, Sweden, Holland have much loved figure heads at their helm. As others have said a presidency doesn't come cheap either, The Macrons hairdressing alone comes to a stonking 60,000 plus Euros, a hell of a lot of money to maintain a couple of bog standard hair cuts. Then of course many of us were aware of how grabby one of our ex PM and his wife were. Further afield, in Africa, Presidential abuses of public money have and continue to be criminal. Quite honestly, I'd rather have our royal family, minus the irrelevant members such as the Yorks.