if I did that I’d be paying her twice the living wage in addition to the cost of the cut!
mamissimo you can’t compare what you pay a self employed person with what the government thinks is a ‘living wage’.
You are paying not just your hairdresser’s income, but also her overheads such as cost of premises, materials, business rates, as well as her holiday pay and her sick pay.
So yes, I agree with your DH.
Ideas about not tipping the owner are old fashioned in my view. If you enjoy the service she provides and she cuts your hair well, why not reward her?